I met a spanish girl back to three weeks ago. First date -- a k-close, second date --a k-close and a bit fooling around and third date, today -- crap.

Somewhere along the line I know I am losing her. Why? After the second date and she was back from holiday last week, she acts so differently. I don't know if I come across too sleazy or she's met someone better than me. I don't see her affection at all.

After she responded to my invitation which I asked two days ago, she came over to see me. However, she didn't come on her own but with her friend as well. Disappointing! However, I lived with it. I called my friend up and ask him to come to help me out. He did but he was a very slimy, cheeky git. He flirted with my Spanish girl although I have told me she was my girl beforehand. Anyway, I am writing here to complain his behaviour. What I want here is how to get a F-close.

Today I felt like we were friends. When I tried to touch her or whatsoever, she didn't reciprocate it, but she got a bit uptight. The meeting-up was not great but I still managed to finish it in a very friendly way.

I am thinking to ask her out again to finish the deal and have a f-close. I don't stay in this kind of relationship and what I want is moving on. How can I do it? I am thinking about asking to have a cinema and afterward going back to hers to see if I can get lucky with her.

Any advice at this stage would definitely help.

Have you tried the evolution shift routine?

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Hey look at that!
What?
That! You dont see it?
No not really....
Oh come on theres nothing i just wanted to talk to you. Whats your name?

Well, in my own opinion I think that you should (from a pua stand point) flip them TABLES! Meaning get her to chase you, get her to want to F-close you, I think you should tease, and play a slight bit harder to get, and maybe even through in some jealousy, start talking about other girls in your life, let her know that if she doesn't cease the opportunity her self she'll lose you.

I mean you already have enough comfort if she'll hang out with you.
Now you'll need to drive up that attraction.

Basically, I would suggest you put less effort and get her to go after you and... Bam! reverse psychology you got her hitting on you, and you get her right were you want her.

Conclusion, get her even more attracted and build up that sexual tension step by step.

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True good sir.

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Hey look at that!
What?
That! You dont see it?
No not really....
Oh come on theres nothing i just wanted to talk to you. Whats your name?

HOw can I play hard to get? any examples?

show no interest, but at the same time giver her IOIs. Try the evolution phase shift. look it up in the routines section.

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Hey look at that!
What?
That! You dont see it?
No not really....
Oh come on theres nothing i just wanted to talk to you. Whats your name?

Okay my bad I'ma few days late, But...

I would suggest to play hard to get By:

Push-Pull, Use some to get her on an emotional roller coaster, Example:
"You are either: the coolest girl I've ever met OR a total weirdo"
"Part of me wants to stay here with you, but another part wants to run away!",

Qualify Her, that's another good way to play hard to get, Frame your self as a High Value person, and get her to prove her self to you, this link should explain a bit more on that: http://seductiononsteroids.com/the-q-technique/

One of the most, if not the most important things you should remember about Pick Up is that "You are the PRIZE", remember that and you should be good.

Also, when ever you compliment a girl (to let her know your interested or w/e 'aka giving IOIs' )
Make sure to always follow up your IOIs with an IOD and vice versa.
IOI -> IOD = You let her think your interested like most guys & then you throw her off with the IOD, (they never see it coming)
IOD -> IOI = Or like juan47 said You first let her know that your not falling all over her, But then right after let her know she still fits your standards. Example:
"I love your hair! Aw But if only you had 'opposite of how her hair is' "
"What your wearing is a bit... out there... But you look sexy in it ",

Another thing I like to do is to just basically, think of the girl as if she were a Domino, I like to set her up gently... just to knock her back down. See every time you lead a girl on and then... just drop her, not only are you playing hard to get but your also being different from other guys who just chase, so theoretically that can build attraction.

In Conclusion I hoped that helped you and good luck on the girl.

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