just got back from a halloween party and while i controlled the dance floor I didnt really get any direct girl attention.

I ended up talking to mostly boys lol

I'm definitely above average looking, tall and quite muscular.

maybe I should have gone as something that showed that off?

Or maybe try and have fun, and engage girls. all girls even uglies, they know hot girls.

Yes, agree with the Snake Doctor. Go practice engaging with everyone. Even grannys at the supermarket. You will develop the life skills to be successful with women.

Instead of mostly talking to boys, talk to girls, it's that simple. Go introduce yourself, or if you see a friends talking to some girls walk over and talk to him, and then introduce yourself to them. If you were dominating the dance floor, you should have had girls dancing with you, if you catch a girl looking at you while you're dancing, walk up, grab her hand, and lead her out onto the floor.

It's not difficult to walk up to a group of girls and ask them if they're having fun. And from there, it isn't difficult to escalate the conversation. Just go for it man, and make sure to have fun doing it.

yeah i think i dont take the iniative. I just realised now that there were girls that were looking at me, touching my butt with magic wands etc.

And got many IOIs from some chicks with boyfriends.