Ive been getting mixed signals on this.

Always look your best. Thats all that should matter to you.

I always try to think "would I be happy if I died in these clothes tonight?". That usually helps me decide how to dress.

It does and it don't.
It does: everybody is looking for the best reproduction partner so girls will go for the healthy tall and goodlooking sportsguy.
It doesn't: you can outgame better looking guys.

But do the best you can for yourself.

Everything matters.

They do matter, just not as much as you would think.

I am fortunate enough to be considered handsome by numerous women and combined with a sharp dress sense, I can naturally attract women with ease. But my past history with women was terrible before I made an effort to improve my social skills. Now I feel like I am making use of the looks I was born with.

But no, they don't matter within reason. Look at Style.

Looks matter, but do not confuse physical image with physical attributes. If you're white or black or chinese or purple or whatever, you won't be able to do anything about that. However, you can still wear cool clothes which are stylish, and create a lot of attraction.

My point is that you have to help yourself as much as possible, especially if you're not Brad Pitt (and i'm sure most of us are not lol).

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Simply does matters in the first impressing. I got this annoying thing happening to me all the time. I even get a lot of girls opening me all the time and I almost every time end up screwing up cause my game's shit even tho I've got the looks. But if are good looking and you realise it then it builds up ur confidence a lot and decreases the fear of approaching good looking girls..

This.

When a guy looks at a girl, looks is pretty much 90% of the equation. A sparkling personality, good fashion sense and above-average intelligence can bump an 8 up to a 9, but a fat girl who's a 4 with a great sense of humour who's really nice is still a fat girl. Furthermore, although guys have types, in general, there are "clasically attractive" features that the vast majority of men desire - hip to waist ratio, breasts, youthful complexion, slim, etc.

When a girl looks at a guy, looks are just another factor that ranks in the mix with tons of other ones, such as personality, wealth, social status, intelligence, confidence, humour, dress sense, etc. Which means that excelling in any one or two of these can outweigh a deficiency in another. This is why a girl will date the asshole part-time bartender with no prospects and no money because he's good looking and the sex is fun, and then ditch him for the wealthy 45 year old businessman who's a foot shorter than her and going bald. (Whereas, a guy will not ditch the ditzy glamour model for a fat ugly girl just because they share a lot of interests and she's really smart and funny.)

As long as you present yourself as well as possible, i.e. wear clothes that are fashionable (not necessarily expensive) and flatter your figure, got to the gym, get a well-styled haircut, etc and approach confidently, you're giving yourself the best chance at getting your foot in the door. Also, women's types are very different - a girl can absolutely love a certain look, for example dark hair, and therefore she would just not be interested in your Brad Pitt lookalike friend, but be really interested in you - the only way to find out is to go approach!

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It's all about looks. If you're not Brad Pitt, you have no hope and should just save mother nature some time and rid yourself from the gene pool. Pick up is actually just a ploy to get money. Charisma is a joke. And everyone on this forum is a retard, including myself.

I honestly used to think looks were everything until I saw the hottest girl I've seen in my entire life in one of my classes in college. This girl is a complete 10 without question and she is with an overweight ginger who might be a 4 on a good day. There has to be something besides looks going on.

women do not like good looking guys!! FACT!! i should know cause i get the cold shoulder every week. also my profile on plentyoffish.com never get any replies, my friend requests on facebook never get accepted and they blank me out everywhere i go.

so i just let them be stupid.