Number closed a girl.

Going out on a 3rd date tomorrow.

Still haven't done anything more than hugged goodnight.


Usually I feel comfortable with a girl, even on the first date. This girl is obviously into me as she keeps making plans to go out, but she seems very shy/conservative.

What should I do to break the physical tension and at least get her to hold my hand or something?

Start with light armtouching. As you walk together reach out your arm for her to hold it. When she's comfortable with that grab her hand and walk hand in hand. Shy girls need to be led. So be the man and lead her.

the answer is right infront of you mate...
if you say she keeps on wanting to go out, she's obviously into you.
Try and take her somewhere you know that you'll sit close to each other so you'll have bigger chance of raising sexual tension and dont wait for her to initiate. Eye contact helps alot, talking about stimulating subjects and alcohol
if she's still being conservative and it bothers you, maybe its her and she's just not right for you. But thats another angle you should examine.

you cant force the issue, but you cant ignore the issue.. get me?

be smooth on your transitition, but dont wait to long..

make out with her next time go for a kiss, get her to a seduction place.. and feel up her titties for instance, i remember my friend told me to do this i thought he was out of his mind.. but i went ahead felt up the girls titties, and boom got laid.. and repeat done it over & over, like they said take the lead, be yourself just like you have..

expect to hear more than a hug next time bro..

You should have pulled the trigger by now. A girl who agrees to go out on a second date MUST be kissed. This is your third date, so you definitely have to escalate things.

1-Kiss her. Not at the end of the night, but at some point during the date. Doesn't have to be romantic, doesn't have to be fancy, just something to break the physical barrier that you guys have so far. Tip: If you kiss her before the end of the night, you can repeat it several times during the interaction. Every kiss will get you guys closer (assuming you both enjoyed it).

2-If your date involves walking around, hold hands with her (or something similar). A good way of doing this is by walking a bit ahead of her, and pulling out your hand to her without even looking back. She'll grab it, especially at this point. (this works great when you're walking through a bar or club too).

3-If yo guys are sitting down, make sure you sit close to her. Find places where you can site side by side (like on a nice sofa or couch). If you're sitting next to her is easier to get closer and to kino escalate.

4-Palm Reading. Do some palm-reading fooling around with her. Nothing fancy, nothing creepy, just a fun way to touch her. Women like these kind of stuff so she'll agree to it. Also, at some point during the conversation, simply say something like "wow, I really like your hands (as you grab one), they're so delicate and small...not like mine which are big...blah blah". This is a perfect way to hold her hands, and caress them.

Hope it helps

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