My goal is to build attraction between me and this girl. Ive had great success texting her. I see her twice a week because we have band together and we perform on saturdays.
during practice i get lots of IOIs such as her foot is always pointing directly at me and much eye contact and smiling. My bud says shes always staring when im not so I think thats a good thing.

our last text convo i left off with me saying" Its getting late ill talk to you tomorrow"
now the day has come and we usually meet up today for practice. Sooo im wondering if i can build attraction with absence.

This is how im considering doing it:
1. not text her today
2. not show up for practice
3. when they (the rest of the band) asks my bud where I am he says
"Oh he took his "girlfriend"(in a teasing way) to see paranormal activity 3. (movie she wanted to see)

im hoping shell get jealous and think about me.

now im worried that : A) im being a dumbass. B) shell focus on the only other attractive guy in my absence.

i wouldnt say girlfriend, or even necessarily girl... just that you went. let her wonder

no dude... Those absent tactics are only used once you actually get the girl.

2nd.. You're playing it entirely too distant.

Do you want the girl or not?

If you want her... GO GET HER.. Stop being shy focusing on building attraction through indirect measures. Thats gonna land you no where but watching her with another guy in a matter of time. She's interested! Take action and be bold. Stop being a wuss.

After the next practice, tell her " hey lets hang out, im free. I know this cool park down the street... Come on" ( and just start walking)) Or whatever. Just take some type of action.

You have to attack and you have to take risk if you want a girl. Period.

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I AM being shy!

Told my bud to leave out the girlfriend part if they ask where I am.(thanks for the heads up guruman)

I ended up going to this concert my school was holding instead.
I told another girl I'd go if she was lucky. Guess she was! We talked after so its cool. Now im visiting this other girl tomorrow.

The way i figure, I see this girl every week for practice, but these concerts are twice every fall.

Thanks for the advice Fuze itll be useful next week!

NO you're not doing it right.

Just kidding. Anyways push pull is always funnest when you're doing it to a girl you know she likes you.