A girl I've known for 2 years now. Was "in love" for her for a while back when I wasn't studying this material. Encountered her a few times in school and displayed a better me. We had lunch once, something I was never able to do back in my AFC days.

Well I was online last night and she suddenly initiated a chat. We talked about stuff we did before (how I used to be addicted to this online videogame in my AFC days).

She asked me to do something for her and I refused (not politely lol) and backed it up by telling her "why don't you come over tomorrow and I'll help you out?"

She said: "I have to go to (some theme park) tomorrow."

I asked with whom and she said: "a friend."
She followed up with: "I don't really wanna go but I promised."

I said: "Don't go if you don't want to."
Then quickly followed up with: "Hey I gotta go to bed. Gotta review for this test tomorrow." < This is true by the way.

She gave me her new number. IOI

And I said "I'll talk to you later."

*I made myself unavailable to chat and received the message: "Good night" from her. IOI.

Texted her this morning asking if she decided to go to the theme park anyway.
She said: "On my way there right now."

I said: "Get me a souvenir ok? "

She said: "Lol? Haha. Ok I'll see what I can get. "

Holy Crap totally didn't expect a positive response!!

Anyway, it's night time where I am and I wanna text her but I think I should wait for her to text me instead.
Damn. Seems I got a case of Oneitis here. I should be in field right now but I'm stuck reviewing for this damn test...

I'm thinking of asking her out after the test but how should I do that?

Do not text her today. As a matter of fact, let it rest for a bit. From what you showed, you sound a bit needy, and just because you've been "lucky" to keep things "interesting" doesn't mean it'll last forever.

Give her some space and stop asking needy questions like "who are you going with?", "did you decide to go...?". You don't need to know this kind of information since you're not her bf (and even if you were, I'd think about it twice before asking these kind of questions...)

Simply relax, take your time, be a bit more confident without rushing things (like inviting her over...) and keep building comfort. She'll fall for it soon (hopefully)

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How is this an IOI? Am I missing something here? I don't like the idea of reading into chat game much. But if I am going to look at this objectively, isn't the only thing you showed her that she was the only one your talking to?
Her telling she has to go, you going offline? Doesn't make any sense.....

Obviously the theme park thing is not something the girl is looking forward to....(She's probably being nice to a clingy guy or whatever). Why would you remind her of an bad experience? You want to be the guy that she experiences good feelings and experiences with