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PostPosted: Wed Oct 26, 2011 10:23 pm 
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Ok, guys, So there I am at a local coffee shop and I'm just kind of getting out and trying to socialize. I look over and see what I would call an HB 8.5ish sitting there on her laptop by herself. I'm thinking to myself, "Ok, girl sitting there by herself...Why not approach?" So I walk up to the register, as to make an excuse to head her way, and I walk right over to her and sit at the seat next to hers. "Ya know what the weirdest thing about being alone in a coffee shop is?" I ask, as she looks over in my direction with a slight smile, "It opens you up for conversations with complete strangers! I'm *Introduce myself." She laughs and responds positively. We spend a few moments sitting there talking about random things before I'm like, "Well, I was supposed to be back wherever about 20 minutes ago, so I'll see ya around!" I asked for her number and she handed me a business card. Anyhow, I think she's like super crazy awesome high value chick who is like independently wealthy and all that. Either way, I feel pretty overwhelmed. How do I text her to try and meet up or something, knowing she goes out to super crazy amazing events all the time? I've been texting her fairly regularly, like every other day or so, keeping it casual. So I'm wondering how I can get her to come out with me somewhere. I should mention I don't do too well going to clubs or bars, but I REALLY shine in like casual places like coffee shops. Any ideas? If this even made sense. Cheers!


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 26, 2011 10:29 pm 
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Ok, guys, So there I am at a local coffee shop and I'm just kind of getting out and trying to socialize. I look over and see what I would call an HB 8.5ish sitting there on her laptop by herself. I'm thinking to myself, "Ok, girl sitting there by herself...Why not approach?" So I walk up to the register, as to make an excuse to head her way, and I walk right over to her and sit at the seat next to hers. "Ya know what the weirdest thing about being alone in a coffee shop is?" I ask, as she looks over in my direction with a slight smile, "It opens you up for conversations with complete strangers! I'm *Introduce myself." She laughs and responds positively. We spend a few moments sitting there talking about random things before I'm like, "Well, I was supposed to be back wherever about 20 minutes ago, so I'll see ya around!" I asked for her number and she handed me a business card. Anyhow, I think she's like super crazy awesome high value chick who is like independently wealthy and all that. Either way, I feel pretty overwhelmed. How do I text her to try and meet up or something, knowing she goes out to super crazy amazing events all the time? I've been texting her fairly regularly, like every other day or so, keeping it casual. So I'm wondering how I can get her to come out with me somewhere. I should mention I don't do too well going to clubs or bars, but I REALLY shine in like casual places like coffee shops. Any ideas? If this even made sense. Cheers!
I'm surprised to see how much confidence you showed in the approach but how puzzled you seem about handling the current situation.

First of all, stop and relax. She gave you her number, so clearly, she is interested in establishing a communication with you. Do so.

Be confident and stop the absurd idea that "she's high value, she has a lot going on...blah blah blah". If she has a lot going on, good then. That's really not your problem.

Game her like you'd do for any other girl. Her pussy is not made out of gold, so you don't have to give her such a status unless she proves you she deserves it (which hasn't even happened yet).

Relax, be social, and invite her out for a drink during the week. Do not stalk her, give her some space, and show you're a busy person yourself. Do not make yourself available all the time, and work her out through text messages before meeting up. ;)

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