Oh man...I use to be a reclusive turtle but since I joined a fraternity on campus, woman seen to fly by me everyday.

Anyways, as you could have guessed my social value isn't that high. 600ish friends on Facebook, and only couple of pictures of me partying. This chick I met last week, wanted my number right away when she found out we were from the same hometown.

Then she wanted me to ask her out last weekend only I f***ed up and instead of inviting her over, I asked how her day was. I actually made a previous thread on this. Anyways, looks like she is giving me a second chance without me even asking or texting.

We have a club meeting on campus tonight and she offered to give me a ride because she was "scared" to go on on her own. Then when I said I would be going some place on Sunday, she also wanted to come along. After a while, she said Twilight was coming out and that we should go watch it together. At the end, she told me she would give me a ride every time we had a meeting.

I'm sort of scared. No woman have ever been this aggressive towards me. Should I count this as a blessing or do I need to be careful? She has like over 1,000 friends on facebook and she has a shit ton of party pictures.

She is considering having sex with you. I don't want to say she WANTS to have sex, cause I don't know her enough, and having 1000 friends on FB doesn't mean anything.

Do you want to have sex with her? If so, then what's the problem?
Do you want to have a relationship with her? If so, then what's the problem?

Just because it might be a new experience for you doesn't mean it's a bad thing or that something weird is happening. Women sometimes are more determined with what they want than others. We usually do the chasing, but every once in a while, a woman comes along that wants things to get going right away.

Ask yourself what you want, and make a decision from there. If you don't want the chick, let her know you're not looking for something serious or whatever. Don't have to be direct, just don't lead her on to thinking that you want her too.

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who gives a fuck how many friends she has on facebook
who gives a fuck on how many photos she has of herself partying
it doesnt mean shit.
any one can do that she wants attention and wants guys commenting on how sexy and good looking she is.

dont be intimidated by any of this

I guess what it comes down to is that I am afraid I won't be able to live up to her expectations since I have never had a girlfriend before.

this is not too good to be true. this is your second chance. go hit it.

This.

I mean I'm talking to girls a lot more now but i can't shake this feeling. one thing to think about is she obviously has some interest in you at this point the way she puts all these moves on you

You should aim to live up to her expectations. You should try to see if she can meet yours! This comes with time and experience, and a very solid inner game.

Clearly, more work on the confidence area is needed in this case.

Think about it, if you fuck 1000 chicks, how important do you think number 1001 is going to be? Doesn't matter if she's the hottest girl you met at a club last night, most likely you'd have experienced something similar at some point or another.

The more self pity you have, the more you'll project insecurity and the more mistakes you'll be making here and there. She'll catch up on them and she may either capitalize on your lack of confidence, or she'll drop you because of the low social value you represent.

She gave you another chance, GREAT. Time to make things happen.

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dude.

she's not your girlfriend.

she is a chick you are going to bang!

differentiate, amigo!

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Lol, I just love the referencing to Facebook friends here..

She is obviously into you dude but that doesn't mean you're in the clear, even with all the attention she is showing you, if you don't make a move when you see her next then I really doubt she will give you another chance.

When a girl likes a guy she will give him a 'window of opportunity' to make a move and if he doesn't take it then most of the time they will not get given another, women are very hot and cold with this, it is the same in the animal world.

Don't fall into the trap of thinking that her aggressive interest in you means that she is a slut or a loser, the fact of the matter is, you are a winner now and you need to get used to having attractive girls pursuing you.

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What if I don't live up to her f**king expectations?

who gives a fuck?

attitude of abundance, man

you are already mentally sabotaging yourself because you are convinced you can't handle her

don't ask out HB10's if you feel (inner game) that they are better than you.

besides, shouldn't it be about her living up to your expectations?

you go in with that flimsy of inner game, she will chew your ass up!

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Dude, she pretty much offers you everything for you to bite. She'll be ok.
You are the one fucking it up majorly right now by totally losing it over a girl who gives you very clear signs of interest.