Met this girl at a dance class. Didn't pay her much attention originally. She found out I was a musician through a friend and asked me about it so I invited her to a concert. She came up to me and reminded me to give her my phone number. That evening she text me that she'd look into tickets, then the very next morning had bought the tickets. Initiated text again throughout the week. We had a great time at the concert and drinks after. She told me she had been engaged and hadn't dated for 5 years. She comes across as a very good girl. I started to like her.

I asked her when she was free and she sent me a text of her availability over the next two weeks. I invited her out for sushi and a few games of pool on thursday. We had fun again, as I dropped her off I went for a kiss. She didn't move in on it, but didn't back off either. She told me she felt anxious and that I needed to give her time. I invited her out to an event which would have been tonight. She told me she's get back to me. She text me the next day saying she'd politely decline the invitation, but had Monday and Thursday open. I said Monday and I'll call her over the weekend.

She tried to call Saturday night but I was busy. I called her today and asked her to lunch. She accepted, we went. Seemed like a good time talking. This time when I dropped her off she just got out of the vehicle. We still have plans to meet tomorrow night at my place but I feel very nervous.

She has all kinds of guys asking for her phone number at the dance class. I just went there to meet chicks and now I'm done with it. One guy I know is interested in her and he has asked her to go to some other dance class with him. She told me about this guy, and that she's going to go to the class with him. Sounds like she has a lot of opportunity.

Anyway, I've made my intention clear at this point, and I'm not about to spend a pile of time on her and get oneitits...I can already feel it coming on so if she pulls that friends shit with me I'm gone. I would like to spend more time getting to know her though. I just don't know if I should be pushing the physical or not. She doesn't seem very receptive to it and shuts down near the end of dates where that opportunity for a kiss or whatever exists. It does seem like she's interested to some degree though...given that she initiates most texts, and has offered her time to me.

Hey bro, we've all had oneitis and it can easily be cured .

Okay this is what you need to have... ABUNDANCE. Always always always be gaming other women, it allows you to stop thinking about this hb8, and you will realize that his hb8 is not so special, thus reducing your oneitis for this particular girl.

In the last two weeks I've taken 5 girls out on dates. Today I took this girl I'm talking about for lunch, and an hour after I dropped her off I met up with a girl for coffee I met on the plenty of fish.

I have a date with her tomorrow night at my house. First time she will be at my place. So...unless she cancels, I may have an opportunity there depending on where her mind is. Being that what kino I have done with this girl is not met with too much reception, and she isn't keen on kissing me back or going for a hug often...how should I go about building attraction tomorrow night?