So after about 10 mins i make her cum, but i cant myself we'd try a range of positions but it takes me being on top and doing all the effort for about about 15mins for me to cum and i just dont have the energy any idea what the problem is?
last week i was in bed with a 10/10 looking bird but i just couldnt cum and she was complaining i was taking to long even head didnt work!!

Maybe UR into boys? Just kidding, couldn't resist :)
For me, doggy does the trick when I face that problem in round 2 or 3. If that's not enough then putting her face down on the bed the long way, legs together, maybe pillow under hip, and playing with entrance angle (also slightly sideways) gives additional rub. And getting rid of some juice by drying off the little friend a couple of times also helps.
However, I got complaints as well as it took a hell of a pounding to get there.

My current GF will usually only allow one round... now that's what I call a waste of potential :/

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exactly same if my gf stopped complaining then id go forever and then cum when i can hitting two birds with one stone

Could be delayed ejaculation, or excessive masturbation. Not saying you have a problem, just stating possible causes.

Stop having sex for 5 days and try again. See if the situation improves.

Also, if you masturbate regularly, watch for flexing of your legs. Some men tend to flex their legs and tighten their prostate when they masturbate, which over time, can be quite difficult to achieve during sex.

Hope it helps

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Problem is, your current situation, all your doing is fucking her. Pussies are very sensitive, the same thing over and over gets her pussy burned out. Do different things like stoping and eating her out, fingering her, teasing her, etc...No mater how long you can last, or if your a minute man, she will not bitch.

I've had this problem with new girls before. I think it was an anxiety/comfort issue FOR ME. Stop masturbating and see if the problem persists, especially when you keep having sex past the first time.

Also, stop calling women "birds."

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first of all realise that cumming isn't everything, are you enjoying the sex?
you should be, if you're not make sure you start haha
then it might not always be necessary to come!

second of all sometimes this issue resolves itself if you have a lot of sex, it's sometimes overthinking that's stopping you from coming or caring too much about it

third of all you can train by making yourself come as quickly as possible when you wack it. I don't recommend it. You might end up with the opposite problem if you condition yourself to come quickly hahaha


I used to have the "can't come unless I make a really conscious effort" problem
then I was single for a while and wacked it too much and ended up with the opposite problem for a short while, so I retrained myself and now I ding a happy medium

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that happens to me too, when i'm banging a boring chick

hot doesn't matter

a sandbag is a sandbag regardless of the face

chicks that are REALLY into sex, i have no problem getting off

but the ones that are like daydreaming about shoeshopping after they cum, drive me nuts

breaks the vibe

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I have the same problem and I think you have hut the nail on the head. I, up until a fortnight ago, used to masterbate daily, sometimes even 2 or 3 times and when I was doing the deed I would sit on the end of my bed, lie back with my legs straight out and leg muscles tensed right up.

I have cut down my masterbating to once maybe twice a week now which is making me feel better and a lot more hornier. I have not had sex yet since I stopped this excessive masterbation so hopefully this will make me cum a lot more quicker.

I had this problem a bit with my ex-girlfriend.

I found that rather than trying to pummel faster and faster to try and cum (like you might while masturbating), instead if I went as slowly as I could, excruciatingly slow but rhythmic, this made her pussy feel incredibly sensual as I would end up feeling every little ridge, bump, smooth area, etc, that I wouldn't while going fast, and then bang.

I sometimes have this, but it varies. Often I will pound her into the next dimension and won't be able to cum, whereas on other occasions I've lasted mere minutes.