I #closed on an HB7 about two weeks ago and have built comfort & escalated sexually via text ever since. Last night we were supposed to have drinks early in the evening, but she had a family emergency to tend to. Like any good PUA, I told her to handle that and not worry about drinks with a hot-ass guy that night. I then teased her about a curfew.

I had a friend's bachelor party to attend so I invited HB7 to that afterwards. She came, and after a drink, lots of triad escalation by me, we left to my place.

Now, I did f-close, but that's not my question. Rather, I ended up taking some pictures in a Photo app and posting them on Facebook. Well, my FB saw and texted me "Really...?" so I know she's jealous. But I also think the FB now feels cheap.

I think the real issue here is this:

I just got out of a 7-year relationship about 3 months or so ago.
FB and I have a lot in common.
FB is catching feelings, but so am I. I just don't want to committ right now because for 7 years I haven't been out there, and I want to be single, no matter how much I like a girl right now.

How can I communicate to FB that I like her and she shouldn't feel cheap? I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I definitely don't want to push her away. I'm not about using this girl like that. What we have I thought was mutual, but she's been an FB for over a year now and I think the feelings that exist could make FB status sticky. I don't know much about MLTR or OLTR.

I'm sure I'm going to be asked questions like "who is she? I thought it was a bachelor party, and you're alone with a girl in those pics... Etc.

Not sure how to handle that.

Eh, it sucks, but you may need to just have a conversation where you re-evaluate the relationship between you two right now. If you are FBs, there is no exclusivity. It's pretty unfair for her to get mad when you are with other girls. If she is developing feelings, it needs to be addressed, whether you decide to enter an exclusive relationship or move on.

Thing is, the current situation you two have does not allow her to fairly criticize you for this. Plus, she actually hasn't yet. Let's bear in mind so far all she has done is commented on a photo with "really?" It could turn out she just makes fun of you lowering your standards and this is all a moot point.

A friend of mine 2 nights ago had to break up with one of his FB because she wanted more. I think your situation is some what similar. He doesn't want her as a gf but they like each other and they have been doing it for a few weeks. He sees a few others but he doesn't want to hurt her since he likes her so thought better break up now than hurt her later. The advice I gave to him and I now give to you is "If you're going to be a prick, be an honest prick". They will respect that and more importantly "suck them into YOUR reality". I know its not easy but good luck!

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Alright, I agree with you 100%. I was most worried that this may not have been understood an properly communicated earlier.

So, I proceeded to talk to her about it and probably the best case scenario happened:

FB: I'm not naive or mad that you hang out with other girls when you're out. I just feel disrespected that you would post it. That's all.

One more advice, women are one of three things to you:

1- Friend/Family - Whatever!
2- Girlfriend: Dates, Sex, Complements, Commitment, New routine, PDA, etc...
3- FB: Night only meetings, only expecting sex, no PDA...etc

You may already know this, but mixing up how you treat them based on which categories is framing, treat a friend like a girlfriend, e.g. try to kiss her, will have bad consequences...same way mixing frames between girlfriends and FBs...A lot of my friends fuck up with FBs coz eventually they start taking them out and treating them like girlfriends when they arent, which insults the girl a lot...they dont like to be confused like that...no one explains it better than Vin Di Carlo in his Attraction Code book...just thought I would add this extra piece to u coz it hurts me when my friends lose hot FB quickly because of wrong framings.

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Solid advice. I have been mixing gf and fb... Mainly I suppose because I see gf potential in this girl. But I fall back on the excuse that I'm recently single and haven't ver had time to really find out what I truly want.