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PostPosted: Wed Oct 19, 2011 11:37 pm 
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...from your AFC days? A girl that you really choded yourself out with and came across as a creep. If so, what did you say and how did it go over?

There are a few girls from my past that I feel bad for looking back on it lol.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 19, 2011 11:42 pm 
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I use to say sorry for things, even stupid shit i shouldnt even apologized for. Then i found PU, Read a simple line "Never say sorry for ANYTHING" i immediately stopped saying sorry and just kept it direct.

Best advice i can give is, seeing as im not fully adapted PU but have a good mentality of one, Just be direct, tell her why you said what you said/how you fealt.

If it was along time ago, Just forget about it or atleast pretend you did and talk like normal, if it gets brought up, keep it real [Direct] with her and tell her how it is.

Best of luck! :D

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 20, 2011 12:41 am 
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this is another thing that the community has taken completely over the top. I apologize to girls and still fuck them. A MAN OWNS RESPONSIBILITY FOR HIS ACTIONS! I only apologize for things I've done wrong, not for doing something stupid like being attracted to her or a joke, but if I fuck up, I'm honest, remorseful and accepting that I might have hurt people.

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I guess to give more detail - I was referring to a girl that I was just super needy with. I was definitely in a scarcity mindset and just came across way over the top. It's been a couple of years and I've changed a lot and just hate that I made her so uncomfortable and creeped her out. The things you learn after the fact.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 20, 2011 12:59 am 
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A very confident man doing something stupid every now and then and apologizing for it is extremely sexy to girls.

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 20, 2011 1:30 am 
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A very confident man doing something stupid every now and then and apologizing for it is extremely sexy to girls.
Oh really? How do you figure that, more information on how/why would be great.

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 20, 2011 6:07 am 
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Just say sorry when you've crossed the line. When you were on the line there's no reason to say sorry. And indeed it's very masculine to have the balls to apologize.


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this is another thing that the community has taken completely over the top. I apologize to girls and still fuck them. A MAN OWNS RESPONSIBILITY FOR HIS ACTIONS! I only apologize for things I've done wrong, not for doing something stupid like being attracted to her or a joke, but if I fuck up, I'm honest, remorseful and accepting that I might have hurt people.
yep

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