Hey

Im not a PUA, neighter do i want to be one, but i do like the mindset of a PUA. I came here to improve myself.

I have one general question for those who are experienced (want to know from 1st hand):
How do you attract a woman ? (except looking good)


So i need an advice on how to progress in this situation:

there is a girl- we know each other for couple of years, but we havent spoken really much (just sometimes long ago).I study now where she lives.

As i want to experiment, we started talking again (at that time, she had a bf, we went together on a launch-she said something about leaving him; that was months ago), she aslo said something about me -being the only one, that understands her (hate it for being emotional tampon though).

I've always provocated(negged her?) and teased her (via sms and also so, but we havent been out so much). My intention is to build up some sexual tension and make her want me.

Contacting her too many times is making me... you know it, no need to explain. But what what would be the potential course of action?

I can provide with more info, if needed

I thank you in advice.

The general rule is to break rapport. Which means as much as don't suck up what she says. Say something that makes her smile and punch you on the arm or something. (When she does that: bingo and bravo).

For example:
She is giving you a tampon story.
"Yeah I was with friends and they were all like howcome you don't have a boyfriend because you're so cute and stuff" (this example is actually an attempt to have you validate her. Happens a goddamn lot in reality.)
You: (dry tone) "Hmm, you're ok".
"Whaaaaaaaaaat????" punch on your shoulder.
And then you smile slowly while looking straight in her eyes.

But I still need her to get out with me. So there ist text game firstly; everything else comes after.

She does respond; although she takes time sometime.

Suggestions appriciated.

Just got a txt saying she wants to be single "for the love of her happiness". I was just subtly suggesting and not taking me into consideration.

any advice?

Edit: I ignored her "wanna be single " (i really dont give a fuck about this, although it means she will be single for the time being, rest assured) and procced with convo.

its good that you ignored her comment about being single. she wants to see what you will say probably, unless youre already a friend in her mind.

as far as attraction goes, there is no specific way to attract a woman. but there are thing that woman in general find attractive.(most woman, every rule has its exception) for starters i heard this in movie about 5-6 years ago when i was in middle school. "no woman wants a man that other woman dont want" in other words is you seem to have other females attracted to you in turn she will also be attracted to you. also contrary to the community i dont believe in this whole alpha bullshit, but according to the majority an alpha male is one who is confident in his actions and verbally. be both, dont become the ass who thinks hes always right. but if you make a decision stand behind it and say whats on your mind. i also hope youre a smart ass, the comical kind because i am & females love it. thats where the teasin and cocky/funny mentality comes into play aka flirting. thats what attracts woman

get out there tiger

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Back then they didnt want me, now im hot they're all on me

HighTide - thanks for the advice.

She does see me as a friend what i want to change.

The problem is - if I want to come somewhere i have to look different in her eyes.
What to do when i go out w/her HighTide explained perfectly.

A question: If a woman replies always but never starts a conversation- that is a bad sing. Do you guys have an ace up your sleeve to make her more interested?


I read some of that alpha bullshit -but the more i read, the more i see some stupid definitions and examples of alpha guy being a massive jerk.

sorry for gettin back a couple days later. there isnt a real trump card to make her interested. being you makes them interested/ common interest. im a really funny guy, so i guess thats what i use to attract females and im pretty slick cuz im a ridiculously good smart ass (years of practice ) so just attribute the best characteristics about yourself and learn how to put emphasis on them

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Back then they didnt want me, now im hot they're all on me

No need to be sorry- i appricate your advice.

Im still "trying" to make something out of this, my story goes on:
As a matter of fact, im seeing her in couple of hours;
i asked her where she is,and whats she doing, and then she replied me, that she is [insert place(she is studying there], and that she will be going from there at 6-she suggested me to accompany her what i dont like as i idea, soo i answer with "should I?" and then i made an condition (going somewhere- i havent even specified where to) on what she replied that "she really isnt in the mood, but she will go regardless".

So now... the only thing that is now needed is a proper mindset, but thats what i already have.

(inb4 condoms)

This is addressing you're alpha comments. You guys are not understanding what it means. The term alpha basically means a "real man". If you have had a strong father figure in your life... That's most likely what he is.

This is someone who is charismatic, has confidence, takes care of people in his life, has a strong frame, decides his future, doesn't look for validation outside of himself. Basically not a low self esteem homo that looks for validation from women to make himself feel good. Alpha's are NOT loud, ignorant, arrogant faggots that do keg stands and punch nerds in the face. You people have your shit twisted.

You cannot overlook these things, they are very important in making women attracted to you. Look through the "sticky" threads on the site. Look up David DeAngela's 77 Laws of Success, Being a Man.

Your question is broad and can't be answered in 1 post. What makes you attractive to women?? Development yourself into an attractive human being and it takes years. Good luck.