yo guys, im 20, a college kid at a top university in the country. when i was younger, i was smarter than most of the hot girls and could naturally game the shit out of them due to their slowness. Yet now, the women are as smart or smarter than me and i am having more difficulties gaming. I used to be very thoughtful about what i would say and it would work but now it doesnt seem to fly. I am having trouble being too cerebral, or putting too much thought into what i am saying. Do you have any advice?

On another note, I used to get really drunk to have a good time, which in turn caused me to be successful with girls. Being drunk causes me to act like a horny drunk and prevent me from thinking too much. I need to reduce my drinking for personal reasons so inorder to continue to pick up chicks i desperately need some advice on picking up chicks sober. basically, how not to over-think every scenario.

Thanks everyone.

J Slay

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I don't think it has to do with they're smarter than you now. I just believe your mind has declined. Believe it or not, partying hard core as fuck even once a week has negative implications on your mind. I mean it's still fun to do hehe...

Most people aren't aware of state-of-mind changes over time, because most people aren't paying attention to their minds frequently, unless they are advanced meditators who are super aware of how their brain functions.

2 things you can do imo..

Study Pick-Up and all tactics and become a mPUA...

Second, take a good look at yourself. How have your eating, sleeping, overall lifestyle habbits changed since you were younger? If you don't treat your body well, the mind can surely take a drastic decline from it. Though there are tons of things you can do to get your mind in a healthy condition.. in order from best to lest, Meditation, Daily Cardio, Exercise, Weight Lifting, etc.. Those are just a few, and I can testify to meditation for being the greatest change and boost to my mind.

Good luck, I hope you figure things out for yourself. You're never without options.

K-I-S-S: Keep It Simple Stupid.

Stop reading so much material (in case you are) and learn more about social interactions. If you're dealing with women who are too smart and who like to show off, just stop them on their tracks and remind them that you just want to have a conversation and not play Jeopardy.

If the problem is you over-thinking too much, well, don't. Become a bit irrational if possible, and see what happens. You can also say what you think, with no filters, and see how they react. Basically, be spontaneous. Nobody can teach you that in my humble opinion.

So, deal with lots of women, see common conversation patterns, and try to answer all of them in different ways.

I dont know...lol...but hope it helps.

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You know, most people have trouble coming up with anything to say at all. Be happy that you can hold down a convo man! Just keep trying and hopefully you can tweak your game a little bit each time.

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dude i completely get what you are saying. If i look in hindsight, my best or easiest days were when i didnt party hard. but at the same time, when i partied i picked up a larger quantity of chicks. but trust me i kno first hand how drinkin is harmful, thats why i am cutting back. completely agree with the habits, I feel that i need to do daily exercise even though (not gonna be modest here) i am a lifeguard / rugby player with a great body already. so i am trying to learn pick up and practice day and college game, with varying results. Yet my first lay report on this forum was when i was almost blackout and scored a threesome. its aggravating, sober me is jealous of drunk me. but mPUA here we go!
and bansario, i love the KISS method. my family uses that expression all the time yet i was the only one to never fully adopt it. guess its time. i read alot of material to try to find certain techniques that i like and can incorporate, i am not trying to learn everything. but i completely agree with the spontaneity aspect, i loved being spontaneous last year but combined with alcohol i ended up in some trouble. so now i am more careful and reserved. guess i need to try being spontaneous without the alcohol.

- spontaneous
- K.I.S.S.
- daily exercise
- better sleeping habits
- this is great thanks guys, do you have any more advice?

J Slay

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