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PostPosted: Mon Oct 17, 2011 7:17 pm 
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Ok so I hooked up on the weekend with a 7.5/8 out of 10. It went well she replied to me when I texted teh next day saying she had a great time etc etc I told her my friends liked her and she said she liked them. I've been on point on my game right up to this point but I'm startin to either develop oneitis or am really into this girl and am thinkin of throwin up the gloves ;P . I have so many options and she's different. She is a shy girl around me and gets nervous. We've had one date so far. I gotta set up a day 2 but I'm fighting myself not to text first. I won't give in. Just how do I get her to text first?


I think I have the answer: Just don't contact her.

Then she might not contact me at all, afterall she's shy.

So now I'm thinkin I'll just give it a few days, if she doesn't contact then I'll contact her :)


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 17, 2011 7:36 pm 
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No. Girls usually will not text you first. I've had girls initiate texting with me, but only after extensive texting already. I don't ever remember having a girl text me first until after a couple dates already.

Text her first.


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Thanks man. Will do!


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Build enough interest on the initial contact. She will text.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 17, 2011 8:53 pm 
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Well just texted her and it went well ending on a flirty note :)

I am NEVER like this since wanting to become a pua ages ago. She's different. I'm gettin nervous. She doesn't know that though. Around her I'm completely different. I'm gonna have to care less while the chase is on.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 17, 2011 9:09 pm 
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My womanizing sleaze ball non-pua friend says the person who cares less in the relationship is always the prize. You my man are getting overly excited about this girl. Turn it down a notch, game her as usual.


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My womanizing sleaze ball non-pua friend says the person who cares less in the relationship is always the prize. You my man are getting overly excited about this girl. Turn it down a notch, game her as usual.
If this was FB I'd like this comment.

You're dead right! Proceed as usual. Best advice I need right now.


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I met a girl two weeks ago, texted regularly, three dates, met up friday, made out all night and got things about as sexual as they can possibly get without actually having intercourse (logistical obstacle) and this morning was the FIRST time she'd ever initiated a text conversation.

I used to worry about being seen as needy by always initiating, but now I don't. Don't always rush to reply, but maintain contact with her, it can take a while before a girl REALLY gets into you.


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Thats how I get girls to text me first
Dont be suprised though, guys put in double time to text women while we just get sh!tty responses back


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Be interesting and mysterious at the initial contact. Basically is she is really interested she will text you. But you gotta remember, if you're just some random dude she's not gonna think twice to not text you. Just play it cool man. And if she's not worth it she's not worth it.

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