I know this is a hard question. But say I accidentally established a frame where the girl is allowed to play hard-to-get, which I really hate, and I want to reverse it. How would I go about doing this?

pace and lead. Absorb that frame into a different frame
pace , " i like the kind of girls who arent so easy to get into bed and who dont sleep with every second guy they see" here you have paced. You have accepted the frame that you set
now lead, "but it doesnt mean that one should not now how to be wild. When the situation feels right and you feel a kind of connection with someone then it would be so foolish to hold yourself back. I would prefer to go with the flow. I dont like girls who hold back their feelings" now you have leaded and absorbed the initiall frame

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Since you helped me i'll post my thoughts.

If shes in the "Playing Hard to get" Frame, What i like to do is do te same x2, i Show her im not interested nor can i be bothered with that shit, Just being Confident/cocky,Negging/Teaseing, and Push Pulling etc... or i'll even bring it to her attention.

I might also Pretend to her that it isnt working by showing some Fake IOD's to throw her off, because im doing the oppisite of what she expected. [Chaseing her, trying to get with her more]

But by doingg those, i see it the same as a bitch shield, it throws her off and destroys her "Hard to get" Frame, most of the time. Just my thoughts and how i deal with it in Real life situations, Mostly always works and occurs the Oppisite affect. [ Now im the one playing Hard to get and shes chaseing]

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