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na na i got the reason for being there couple of my mates go to the college and so do the girls so i can use that as my reason but like is there any methods that i can use or do i need to start from A1
Which sounds more attractive to a girl?
"I'm here visiting some of my buddies who go here"
-Implies you're not in school while your friends moved on(DLV)
-Implies you have nothing better to be doing than hanging around visiting some people.
Albiet, those are not really majorly bad things... but you can improve your apperance right off the bat.
Saying "I'm here finished some unfinished business to handle", gives you a sort of DHV, leaves them in mystery wondering what you're doing. 'Business' implies something important(atleast in your opinion).
While this may not seem like it matters, saying the second phrase makes you sound like a much more important person than the first.