Dear all,

Ten days ago , I met this HB9.5 (I'd like her to have a bit more of an ass) at friend's low energy social gathering.

We talked for one good hour, and had some good laughs, with her, her female friend, and my male friend (who invited me). I was the one making them especially crack up. I'll admit though that there were some blanks in the conversation, with low sexual tension. The main reason for that is because the party was low energy, and it was really a gathering, so it seems very tough got me to start up sexual tension when every one around you is in low energy.

Anyhow, before that HB9.5 and her friend HB8 left, I exchanged numbers with the HB9.5. The slight mistake I did was to enter myself her number in my phone, and she made me call her. I should have entered my number in her phone, so I could have saved it with a nickname like "The handsome one", or something to make her laugh when I'd call. Since she left in a hurry to catch a train, I didn't have time to set up a date with her.

And, there's an even WORST mishap: three days later (as the MPUA girl says in her video), I wanted to call her to set up a date. The problem is that right when I wanted to call her, I had to do some urgently, which I knew would take at least three to four hours. At the same time, I knew that if I didn't come back to her at that three day mark, she probably wouldn't remember the nickname I gave her when we met.

So I texted her... I know, it's lame. I send her something along the lines that we should meet up again since we had fun that first time, and that we could probably meet up with our respective friends (her HB8 and my male friend). I gave her a date that we should do that.

Of course, no answer... So this is where I'm stuck. I really want to see her again, because she's flaming hot, and I really appreciated her presence, and I think she did too.

My question is: what should I do? I plan on calling her around 9pm tomorrow evening (as the MPUA girl said it was good timing). The goal would be to set up a date for Friday evening. How can I do that without her flaking? Should I also call up my male friend to have a four-way date?

Thanks for your input!

About flaky women and how to avoid it: http://bosproject.com/blog/why-do-women ... ys-part-1/

I wouldn't call at 9pm. If anything, I'd text from 6-8:30pm. Texting reduces your chances of making silly mistakes.

A 4-way date is a No-no. It's not convenient for building attraction and intimacy.

Good luck

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Texting in itself isn't lame. The problem is that you are trying to set up a four way meeting THROUGH her. If you really wanted a 4 way meeting, you should have cleared it with others first, then you could have texted her, "Hey, WE are going to _____ on ____, are you game?" - this would be an 'invite'. What you did on the other hand amounts to, "I really want to see you but since I'm a big fat chicken, I think we should invite our other friends too . . . what do you think?"

On the other hand, if you want to see HER, you should invite HER and only her. . . and don't make it a 'meet up'. Have a fun, specific event in mind.

Ok, I think it's game over.

I called and there was no answer. Whatever, no biggie, I blew it the day a send out that horribly lousy text. I embarrassed myself!

Thanks for tips though!