Re-occurring problem: Bitchy friend



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PostPosted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 11:44 pm 
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This has happened to me about 2 times in the last month alone.

For the latest example:

I was out sarging alone (night game), my friend was bouncing at a local bar, and I needed to kill an hour or so before his shift finished. I worked on a 2 set outside a nightclub. There was these 2 guys in a hotted up ride, who kept circling us in a car park, trying to get one of the girls numbers, but I was able to disarm him quite easily (asked him to a burn out, they also egged him on, but he chickened out and left).

I was getting good IOI's from both of them, and spent about 30 minutes chatting until we agreed to enter the club together. I bought them both drinks, and we went outside into the outdoor area. Again, hitting it off quite well for about 20 or so minutes, and the target and her friend is responding well to my palm reading, best friends test, and lie detector games. Then their '3rd' friend comes along.

I introduced myself and shook her hand, and everything was cool for the first 5 minutes, but then for no reason, she begins to neg me. Then a 4th friend comes out of the woodwork and starts negging me as well.

The target and the first friend are literally being pulled away from me, but either I go over them to continue talking, or they come to me. The bitchy friends literally grab them again for the last time, to take them to the ladies room, and the 2 targets tell me to add them on face book before they disappear into the night.

Questions:

1. How does i disarm a bitchy friend(s)?

2. Also, what implications does the bitchy friend have on my chances with the target? Do I become the 'bad boy' and more desirable in the process, or will they basically slander to the point it would be embarrassing for them to be seen with me

3. In my face book opener, or later down the track in our following conversations, is it fair for me to pay out on the bitchy friend, or will that impact negatively on me?


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 16, 2011 1:34 am 
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i don't know how to handle it.

but i think i know why it happened.

you had rapport built with the first two girls,

but not with the second two.

and they got jealous.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 16, 2011 1:49 am 
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youtube "kezia on bitch sheilds", ive tried that videos stuff out and it works


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 16, 2011 8:49 am 
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^Sweet, that's really helpfull
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i don't know how to handle it.

but i think i know why it happened.

you had rapport built with the first two girls,

but not with the second two.

and they got jealous.
true, it may of bruised her ego since i wasn't paying her as much attention as the other two


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