Hello everyone,

This is my second post on this site and I wanted to start by getting some opinions on an important question I have.

Is it not necessary to legitimately like people? I will be blunt. What girls say and do typically don't interest me. Physically of course there is no problem, the attraction is always there, but their actual company for the times I've acquired it seldom if ever really made me enjoy myself, and I know thats a problem.

Why is this? It might be perhaps that it wasn't until my second year of college that I started to have some successes with girls. But I think the main reason is because I barely ever really just hung out with them. Unfortunately, during high school, my group were the kids who never brought girls around (ya, THOSE guys). I lack a basic appreciation of their company and I know that is unhealthy and not conducive to actually banging girls. It's like every time I open one and get something going the only thing on my mind is how awesome they'd look naked as I try to formulate enough coherent and funny sentences to get them their in the first place.

I don't know if this is a fixable problem, or if this question is just retarded, but I want to fix it. I want to see and appreciate them for their company.

Thanks everyone

Well you kinda answered this yourself: You should get some female friends.
Go shopping with them, eat with them, go and party with them and actually listen to what they have to say! You can learn a lot more from having a female friend or two. Not only that, you can sometimes get lucky and they'll hook you up with one of their friends! They are also AWESOME for making you appear to have a higher value when you are on the field.

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Note to self: Be a man. Bottle up your true feelings. They show vulnerability. What woman wants that?