I meet this girl about 9 months ago. She is definitely one of the most interesting girls I have ever met plus she’s hot! (She is younger than me by one year) She was staying with my sister and a bunch of her friends for the weekend. Usually I leave my sister and her friends alone but I and the girl ended up hanging out the entire weekend. I felt like there was a vibe between us. She was always looking at me and staring into my eyes. When I caught her doing it she didn’t even look away...which most girls do, instead she would just smile and start talking to me. Even when I left everyone and just chilled in my room she would come in and talk to me or beg me to go hang with everybody. Well when we were all drinking and getting high one night, me and her were talking and she said something like “you’re really cool and easy to talk to, we should totally be best friends… and let me be your wing-woman”. I think I told her I have a lot of friends and don’t really need a wing-woman. And then we just went on talking about other things. The last day was kind of weird she was sort of distant and stayed with the girls for the most part. I was thinking about getting her number and ended up being to nervous to even really talk to her. That ended with her leaving and me not getting her number… I really could not stop thinking about her. There was something about her that just had me hooked.

Like a week later I messaged her on facebook (she added me at the beginning of the weekend). The message was something like “I had a lot of fun this weekend. I didn’t think that I would get along with half a dozen screaming girls but I think I did pretty well myself. [Gave her my number] if you ever want to hang out or talk. I thought you were pretty cool and you are definitely one of the most confident girls I have ever met, there aren’t many that are.” She never replied…. Since then I’ve only messaged her like twice saying”hey ” and she never replied…

This past weekend I ran into her at a party. She saw me and said hi so I said hey back. I was in this conversation with one of my friends and she joined in. She asked me why I don’t talk to her so I told her that I have tried and that she never replies. She said that she didn’t get them but that I should get her number from my sister and text her. I said okay (showing very little interest). I don’t really believe that she didn’t get my messages… During the party she told me like 4 more times and I said the same thing as the first time but I gradually started feel like I wanted to... So the party went on. I was really enjoying myself I was chilling with a bunch of my friends and mingling with everyone that I didn’t know except for the girl and her friends. They were just sitting on the couch. Every time I walked by she was looking at me and whispering to her friends. Well somehow I ended up out front talking with two people and the girl and her friends walked out. They were leaving so I said bye getting a return “goodbye” from all of them. When she was at the end of the driveway, she turned back and told me again to get her number and text her. I waved goodbye, said “okay” and then went inside. The rest of the night was awesome! But I couldn’t stop thinking about her…. It’s been 2 days sense the party. I am contemplating texting her. My friend told me to text her. The thing is I don’t want to be just friends with this girl. I really like her and I tend to get put in the Friends’ Zone really fast! So now I don’t know what to do…. I cant stop thinking about her

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!