why do most guys struggle with game?



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PostPosted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 10:34 am 
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Is it has been a year or even more that you are into game but still you are not getting desired results?
Have you gone through lots of seduction material but still you are not getting results?
Have you been out practising but are not satisfied with the results?
Why is that when Game is so easy, anyone can start to get results within just 3 days of dedicated learning?
We are going look at some of the things that cause unnecessary delay in your progress as a pua.
Methods
there are so many methods out there claiming to get you laid within a matter of days. The major mistake that newbies make is that they get into lots of methods at the same time and it gets them confused so they come asking for help even though they have read the best material out there. If you are a newbie, you should never read more than you want to progress. If you are a newbie, you dont want to waste time spending hours with natural game book, double your dating book, mystery method or anyother. As a newbie, your first step is to approach. Forget comfort, qualification and all that, just focus on approach. NOW you can compare different methods and ask for help. You only move to the next step when you are comfortable doing the first step (opening). Thats how you want to learn, step by step, comparing different ideas and selecting what works for you at each step and adopting your game accordingly.
CARING WHAT OTHERS DO
Its when you see someother guy getting results and you stop learning the way you were learning and try to follow him. Don't do that because what works for someone else may not work for you. Your goal is to figure out what works for you. You have to go through each step of game figuring out what works for you and take notes of that.
BAD ADVICE
There is a lot of bad advice in the community. You will find bad advice even on this forum. How to recognize whats bad advice? First of all, you have to know is the guy who is advising you getting results? There are a lot of pretending-to-be-guru guys giving bad advice and the worst thing is that newbies listen to them. How to spot these type of guys? They would try to be general,"be interesting. Play it cool. Dont show interest. Persist in a non-needy way etc" and this type of advise is bullshit. It doesnt make any sense to a newbie. These guys are never able to give practical advise that you can just take from here and apply and it also makes sense (keep this in your mind while reading anything). The guys who really have game would never try to be general, they would give you a tactical way and also explain how to apply that to your situation because they themselves have dealt with these situations many times.
NOT BEING PERSISTENT
Many guys get into the game with passion but they keep delaying. Make a commitment to yourself to improve or just leave it and dont waste your time. A major reason for this is information overload. You read a lot and get lots of information in your mind and then you start to think that there is a lot to be done and practised. Yeah, thats true that there is a lot to be practised but who said you to do that in a single day? You have your entire life to learn, you will be improving every day. So take it easy, and dont read too much. Define weekly missions. May be this week you want to practice opening, what you want to do is read opening related material, do a bit of mental masturbation about how it would look in real life, then go out and do it. Then write down your approach and think how you could do it even better, make adjustments and do it again and repeat the process making adjustments along the way. And then next week you may want to practice building social comfort and so on with every step of the game.
THINKING YOU ARE RIGHT
Many guys think that they are always right. They are never going to admit their mistakes. Dont be one of them as it stops your growth. Always have the mindset of a student who is learning and is open to new ideas.
NOT GETTING OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE
Many guys are imaginary master pick up artists. They open in their head, they build comfort in their head, they even fuck in their head but never actually go out in the field and practise. Dont be one of them. You will have to be willing to break your comfort zone by going out in the field.
NOT CHANGING WHEN NEEDED
Its kinda stubborn behaviour and is also somewhat related to comfort zone. Some guys even if they know that they are wrong, are not willing to change. They would keep doing the same stuff hoping it would work for them instead of trying alternate ways. Be willing to drop what is not working for you and try other tactics and its the only way to find out what would work best for you.
Ok guys, for now, these were the major points that i could
think of. I hope it was helpfull

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