Hey guys. I know you probably get a million posts like this but here it goes. I'm 24 years old and I've had a couple of serious girlfriends, but lately I have been in a really bad dry spell with women. Im really not a bad looking guy at all, but I just cannot approach women. I just feel like it's so awkward to approach women out of the blue and try to get a date. I have lots of good looking girls at my school and I see lots of good looking girls out at the store or a bar, but I cant talk to any of them. I feel like I just would act so awkward if I just cold approach girls. I havent gotten laid in like 6 months and I havent had a girlfriend for like 2 years and Im starting to get really fucking lonely. If you guys have any suggestions I would appreciate it.

I've had it said to me now its your turn bro,.... YOU'VE GOT THE WRONG MIND SET!!.
Inner game man, what I did is I just threw myself into failure so many times it eventually didn't matter what response i got. I just learned how to be Mr. Sociable, then mr comfort, then mr seducer. Go in with energy higher or about the same. open and gradually escalate, then you switch gears to mr comfort, this is where you get to know the person connect with them, the you switch gears again to mr seducer, kino and the works. Be fun and people will generally come to you. Thats for night game though, day game is completely different. Its generally a whole lot more chill.


"ohh it shines must touch."



-Vixen

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I know, lots of my friends say that too me to. I need to just not care and just start talking to girls. I'm just really sick of sitting home by myself all the time, and it's about time I start at least TRYING to get some girls. I will be aiming mostly for day game at the moment. I'm going to be trying to pick up girls at school. I'll see a girl just walking around, but I dont know what the hell I would say to her. I'm not very good at thinking of things to talk about right off the bat, on the fly...

Alright I gotcha, I've got a challenge for you. Its something I'm doing now. Just try it, if it doesn't work then throw it to the side and try something else. You'll only lose a few days of your time but you never know. Try joining your school thespian troupe/drama club and audition for the plays/musicals if you make it a part, great more time in front of people, if not you just made an ass out of yourself in front of people you'll never see again. Now try a public speaking class, you'll be the center of attention so you can work on body lang and how to speak to a bunch of people. Next go to the mall and dress fairly nice and say hi to everyone (women). Try and hold a conversion with them if you can. Doesn't have to be in any order, make a list and just check em off as you feel ready. Let me know how it all goes

-Vixen

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that definitely sounds like a good challenge. I really dont have time to join public speaking classes or drama club, but I think I will definitely try the mall thing. It sounds like I really cant lose, because I will never see those girls again in my life.

Right on, man Now light that fire under your ass and go and just have fun, throw some openers in the mix if your up for it.

-Vixen

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Cheers

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Nathan Griffin