Firstly housemate 1 is a natural, always bring women home and has loads of different friends he goes out with.

Secondly housemate 2 only goes out when I go out a tends to kill the buzz when we're out by not talking to anyone and just hanging around looking like a loser.

My problem: I can't go out with housemate 1 all the time because he doesn't seem to want me in his inner circle of his 'going out friends' even though hes one of my best friends. Housemate 2 is my best friend and has no friends to go out with like myself. I really want to break out of this bubble!

Instead of breaking out of the bubble, simply improve your bubble. Take housemate 2 and teach him some game. Plain and simple. If he refuses, then refuse going out with him lol.

Sometimes we have to make tough decisions, and if you want to become better at attracting women, sarging solo might be an option.

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This is interesting because I have a (sort of) similar problem. One of my SPAM is gay and when we go clubbing he always tries to talk to girls and introduce them to me. The problem is that he is totally straight acting and a massive nerd and comes across as a needy straight guy. Even if he tells people he's gay the usually don't believe him. This ends up throwing my game a bit.

Maybe I should introduce him to the game. Who knows, maybe it will help him too with pulling guys?

Who cares... they only hold you back cos you let them... Either housemate 2 picks his game up and housemate 1 learns to share. This just means you have an easier choice deciding whether you want to share your new friends when you meet them. I've had similar problems with my housemate I just do my own thing. I don't need someone to introduce me to people and I don't need someone holding me back. The train is leaving either get on or stay behind...

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Thanks guys some good points...But housemate 2 is a procrastinator and doesn't have the dedication some I guess I gotta leave him behind.