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 Post subject: Why Am I So Stupid!!!
PostPosted: Tue Oct 11, 2011 11:37 pm 
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Ok, so I'm new to this forum and the reason I looked this up is cause I was really trying to impress this girl.

Backstory......we didn't talk for this first week of class, and when we did talk, we hit it off. Always talking making her laugh and a lot of positive body language. I didn't know about any of this at the time. Anyways, we hang out one time, play strip poker but she leaves in her underwear.

Last night, she Facebook messaged me and said "can we just hang out all the time? I honestly love being around you." so, i go to her house with her and her friend. well, her friend falls asleep and shes laying on the couch. (again, me trying to be the nice guy, I don't just hop on with her). I sat on her at first and then kinda laid next to her, not very comforting though. Recently, the conversation we have aren't as fun and she doesn't seem as happy to be with me. I've been negging and making fun of her in a playful way a lot though.

DID I MESS UP? also what could i do to turn it around...


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 12, 2011 12:18 am 
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You're attitude should be "Nothing is a big deal."

There are many reasons why she might not seem as hot for you and they don't necessarily mean you've blown it.

Now, I'm not qualified to really give in-depth advice from the perspective of a PUA, but I certainly am from the perspective of someone who used to be a major AFC and fucked up COUNTLESS times with girls!!!

Absolutely do not talk to her about why she isn't acting the same way, don't bring it up, don't get upset about it and don't let her know its upset you! If she's not responding to the playful teasing and negging, then maybe cut back on it.

I'm not saying you're the kind of person who would mope, but just in case, DON'T mope around over this because you will completely kill it. I know from experience.

Also, keep your options open and talk to other girls, don't fixate on this. I can remember many evenings spent running through various encounters with girls I liked through my head, over-analyzing and wondering what I said/didn't say and did that went wrong, it's easy to do and very counter-productive.

Focus on being happy, interesting and fun to be around. You don't know everything about her life and can't assume that there aren't underlying issues in her personal life that might be effecting her interactions with EVERYONE and not just you. But also, brace yourself because yeah, you might have fucked up, and if you have just remember that it's no big deal. :)


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