As first, let me say hello everyone!
I'm new here...
I'm in a little trouble, and I'd ask for some help, advices...I'd appreciate it a lot
Now, let me explain you the whole story, how everything started, and where it have gone over time...I don't speak English very well, but I'll try to give my best
Basics:
- I'm 18 years old (since 2 days)
- The girl (target) is almost 16
How it started:
I was hanging out with my dear friends in a nightclub, (and in other places) and my group of friends, as well as her's used to hang out at the same entertaining venues.
One night the girl just started to communicate with me, but mostly body language (I've catch her a lot of times looking at me that night) and next day she added me on Facebook. Ofcourse, I've accepted the friend request, and I didn't wrote to her, since I was not interested in her back then...She texted me like "How are u?", "What you're doing now?" and stuff like that...So, average things.
Time was going on, and after like 3 weeks since I got to know her, she got into a relationship with a random guy (she have told me about the whole story that she just saw that random guy she liked in a club and added him on Facebook and after 2 weeks they got into a relationship), we became pretty good friends when she got into that relationship, and used to hang out a lot (almost every single day) together (me, her and one or maybe two more of her friends - one male and one female...Both pretty much younger than me).
Days were passing...and I just caught myself that I have some feeling towards her...
We are (or maybe I should say were, you'll see why) much in contact, sometimes it's me who calls her, sometimes her...it depends...
When we are together somewhere, like in a park, or where there's not much people, many times she sits right beside me, and she touched me quite much...holds her head on my shoulder, holds my arm with her hand(s), and that stuff...When I joke with her, or flirt (I think I can call it the beginning of flirting as well) she bites me xD mostly my arms...So I don't know if it's a sign that she likes me or not...
Now it's around 3 months since we're good friends, hanged out continously a lot...etc...
2 days ago she texted me how was my weekend, how I am, and stuff...I've replied her with the answers for her questions, and in the end I told her I'm playing with a girl...She asked me who's the girl? I've replied with "ahh, that's irrelevant :PxD"..She said ok, and moved to completely another topic...Then she asked again the same who's the girl I'm having fun with...Me: "None of your business :PxD" And she was like "But pleasee, tell me"... And I didn't replied..after a few minutes (she told me where she is, and even before I told her there's a girl, she asked me to come out with her somewhere but I refused it with the reason that I'm chatting with that other girl) I've gone to see what she's doing with her friends...And she asked me again (now in real) who's the girl...I still didn't told her anything...Then she came up that if I tell her how old the girl is, she'll tell how old the guy is she likes besides her boyfriend...Me: "ohh, you have another one beside your boyfriend?" Her: "No, I just like him, nothing more...The one I love is still my current bf"...Me: "Ahh, got it okay.." her: "So, how old's the girl? Will you tell me or I won't speak with you anymore...? I always told you about really everything" Me: "Sorry, but I can't tell you anything about this, the girl told me don't tell anyone about it [she really did]"...And she just rose from the bench and said bye to her other friend (she didn't said anything to me)...
When I got home, I've texted up her sister..and I got a reply: "Hi, it's *the girls name*, my sister is not here SPAM...Bye."
That's it...My goal was to show her I'm not a type of person who's running for a woman all the way (even I have to admit I still have feelings for her) and that I'm able to pick up a woman (since she knew me, she didn't saw me with any woman things...and when we met right after she got to know I got a girl, she said "Ok, now we know you're not gay for sure heheh
")...Basicly I wanted to make her jelaous, and do some freeze out, but...this is what happened.
Now my QUESTION: What should I do, and what does this mean that she just decided to stop talking with me just because of this? Wait, and text her after a day or two, tell her who the girl is...or? I don't want to lose her completely, but still would love to have a chance with her once she breaks up with her current bf... :/
If all you have to say is "move on", then please don't even reply...I know what I'm doing, don't worry...I just need help for decision what to do next...
BTW: Her sister also told me (one month ago) that she knew I like her...
Thank you in advance and sorry for such a long text...
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