Hey guys, I am very new to the forum, but I really appreciate the wealth of information here. Be nice to get some insight on my situation.

Anyways, met this girl ~ a month ago. She approached me, got my number almost instantly at this party. Since I was/still am an AFC, I didn't do any kino, sexual escalation, none of that stuff, but I somehow asked her to come back to my place. She spent the night, we kissed a little, but since I have no experience with girls, I had no clue what I was doing.

Anyway, we met up the next weekend, and she was angry that I hadn't texted her all week, I didn't know I was supposed to! We went to a party with some of her friends & she was giving out her # to every guy she met, invited a bunch of guys over to the hot tub at the end of the night. I tried to play it cool, but I was complaining at points in the night, and I think she could tell I was a little jealous/frustrated. Anyways, end of the night, at the hot tub, I ask her to come over, she says maybe, so I tell her good night. Get a text a few minutes later asking to come over, so I get her and we start to have sex. I don't know what I'm doing (cos I'm a virgin), my dirty talk makes the sex awkward, and she stops me after a few minutes.

Since then, we have been seeing each other probably once a week, and it has been mostly sober, so it's just some kissing and she always stops me at that. Since I have started reading stuff on PUA, I have tried to become more dominant, and just last time she saw me she said you are not the person I thought you were when we met... I would have sex with you if you were more humble.

And so, she came over Thursday, I tried to escalate from just kissing & she pulled her signature "I should go", so instead of convincing her like I usually do, I jumped up said OK and started walking her to her car. Apparently, she thought I was angry, and then when we were saying bye, she asked why I didn't kiss her goodbye (even though that's not something we usually do). Then Friday night, she visited her friend in a different state, but sent me a text asking for sex and called me later telling me that my bed is just for her (cos I told her I was going to this one girl's party Saturday). She also got a little jealous when I told her about that girl. Not sure if it's worth mentioning, but we talk about sex quite a bit, and I told her that I have had sex with other people, mainly because she freaked out at the possibility of me being a virgin (and I convinced her that I wasn't one).

Sorry for the essay, what would you guys do in my situation?

Come on guys, am I really that bad of an writer!?

new here too
i think you should try to communicate with her
donot guess
it always misunderstand
just ask her
that will be much easier to handle
because i am really not good at guessing
so i just ask out
whether it's ok or not
hope you a good luck

_________________
wow gold
Diablo 3 Gold

It seems to me this girl has no idea what she wants. Tell her that, and she'll eat it up.

_________________
"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

Well this is a weird situation. If it was me I'd start gaming other girls to build up your social proof, that would be step 1, freeze her out for a few days maybe and use a bit of push-pull, that might be enough to get you over the line.

If you keep doing what you're doing I see this going nowhere and eventually trailing off into nothing after a while. I've been with girls like this and it almost always goes nowhere.

Yea so game other girls, not only will it build up your social proof but you might actually GET one of the other girls. I think that's what's she's worried about is that you don't have enough status/confidence to be fuck-worthy, gaming other girls should help fix that. Then go back and game her again.

_________________
It came to me in a drreeeaaammmm

I appreciate the advice man, few more questions.

She has been asking about if I'm a player, been with other girls etc, how do you answer that?
It turns out her ex was at the same place as her this weekend, and she only vaguely told me about it (not mentioning him by name when she talks about him to me frequently), should this bring up red flags?
How would I show her that I'm gaming other chicks without pretty much bragging?

She's using you as a back up. She has her guys that she wants to fuck and whenever she doesn't get a partner she uses you for a bit. But she knows she has you and sex isn't a challenge for her. My advice is to switch it around, tell her LJBF. this drives girls nuts thinking you are really giving her up. Give it a shot and let us know.

And for the social proof you're asking about. It's gotta be demonstrated not told. One thing I do is head out to a place with a girl but tell a few of my friends (including girls) to go to and chat with us at times. Make sure they are good friends or it can be weird

It's not that bad, not yet anyway. Cos she's told me that I'm the only person that she's been with in the last month (since I've known her), and she will casually show me/tell me about a text on her phone where guys are trying to get with her.
Should I still LJBF?

Any thoughts on the recent stuff I posted?

Thanks.