Hey 19 year old virgin here extremely new to "the game." Not so new to talking to the female sex but new in gaming them.

So two weeks ago i came across this forum after looking around the internet on getting help on attracting women sexually. I gained some confidence through reading posts of success from others here and made some uncharacteristic moves on the ladies.

Anyways, this girl in one of my lectures keeps staring at me since about 1 week ago (about HB7). Decide to man up and make my first move ever on a target (lucky me). Anyways, i approach her when the lecture ended and made some small talk (once again not new to this non-sexual small talk) with her. Started talking to her about lecture, where she's staying, etc... ended up trading papers to edit each others work.

Anyways, about 4 days after that we meet up after another lecture and she gives me back my paper. I start to increase sexual tension (i think) using bed-room eyes/i want to fuck you like an animal style while talking to her. (Didn't feel that kino was appropriate yet). Take paper and leave with a good-bye to her after some more small talk. Look at back page and her number is on it in red ink (all other ink was in green).

tl:dr approached girl non AFC style. Got her number on back of graded paper. What do i do now?

notes: I can text girls like a friend. How should i text her with game. Guides/advice needed. Also, numbers are big with underline on it, so i think this means more than friends n-close?

Thanks everyone. This website has been so helpful so far hoping i can make this work.

no need to text game her, it would be over-gaming, as shes obviously into you. You generally want to do the least amount necessary to go from point A to point B.

Call or text her and invite her out to a late night snack, coffee, or star gazing. If it goes well from there invite her home. Make sure to hide your porn stash first.

The red ink and underline means she gave you her number in red ink and underlined it...Who knows after that, for all we know she could have been thinking about unicorns on mars when she did that, women are odd, but, you go her number! Now, I wrote this for another thread and ended up not posting it, so now is as good a time as any: (been sitting on my desktop)

Yeah...Play it cool. How long has it been since she gave you her #?

Once I get a number I usually wait a day or so to follow up, then real quickly say hey and arrange day 2. Don't want to sound desperate but perpetuate interest...Shes into you and probably thinking about you, so try this:

Depending on your living situation try and get her to put in the effort to get to your place before you go out...One, this shows you shes interested, and two, it puts you in control. Of the night. Few things to remember, make it quick...also, know what your going to do. Have 2 back up locations...You should never be in the situation where she goes "so, what do you wanna do". - "I don't know". Always have an answer and a plan! (FYI, this is straight from David DeAngelo, but its worked for me twice this month!)

So - pick up the phone, and say something like this:

You - "Hey, just want to see if we can get together xxx for some xxx (Tea/Coffee). Nothing fancy, I just want to chat, if nothing else, we can be friends."

Her - "Ok, that sounds great!"

You - "Good, swing by my place at xxPM, ring the bell and I will be right out. See ya then."

- Hang up -

Now, you notice your not giving her much room to talk, and you sound like you have things to do and are not willing to spend all your time on her. Coffee is innocent.

So, D2:

She comes over, rings the bell. Do you be right out like you said on the phone and she is expecting? NO! Go out, act like your about to lock up and say "you know what, let me grab some things real fast, please come in for a second and we will go". If she is comfortable enough with you she WILL come in...Now, no unless it gets hot and heavy right there, your still going on a date, not time for your dick to get wet just yet! Go into the other room, out of sight for a brief second, have her look around real fast (works perfect here because I am in a 2 story loft type deal that is pimp), then rush her out the door, "lets go!"

Not only does she confuse her because shes never had any dude get her into their apartment then want to leave, but it gets her mind moving around and building anticipation about wanting to go back and check things out. Go to whatever, come back, invite her back in, turn on some music, and if the electricity is in the air you have been cleared by the tower to escalate!

Now, don't be stupid, feel out the night, No means no and just remember she gave you her number...she is interested no matter how hard she plays to get. Once you leave your apartment its all about logistics. I like to drive and I do the whole gentleman thing. I let her talk about herself and depending on her openness just be cocky funny. Rubbers are good to keep around the house and don't be a creep, leave all the lights on high and don't force anything, if she gets nervous, back off, push pull.

Have fun!

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invite her out, be confident and fight of all natural AFC urges like complimenting her constantly and being a "perfect gentleman" let her do a lil work as well.

Okay sounds good. Yeah i was thinking i might've been over doing it but its nice to have a second opinion. Good idea on star gazing, can be a good way to stay quiet if conversations get a little run down.
Well i originally thought it might've meant something because most of her remarks on my paper were in green and the number was seemed to be made apparently different because of the red ink/underline.
Well the story happened friday. I have texted her now in a friendly way no day 2 stuff made. Have tried to "sound cute" though.
I like both d2 ideas. Coffee from what ive seen on this site seems to be the best beginning of a date possible. Something with caffeine overdose or something haha.

Thanks for all the advice. Probably gonna try and set up some coffee date

Good!

The reason behind it is 1. Its a no-commitment type deal, just coffee. 2. Not much money is exchanged. 3. its only going to be 20 min or so. 4. you can bug out and stop the date if she is wacko. 5. She probably does not get asked to coffee shops much...by being ambiguous about what your intentions are it keeps her mind working...

Say something definitive, whatever, say something ambiguous she will be thinking about it for days!

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