Hi,
Just over a year ago I had a thing for this HB7 who was barmaid at my local. After bumping into her one night at a local club I managed to make out with her and get her number, although you should realise that none of this was done by using any skills from this community as I had not discovered the community at this time and I was your stereotypical AFC. If I can remember correctly I was really drunk and I just went up to her and told her that I thought she was good looking and she said the same thing back to me and it went from there.
I texted her and arranged a date to the movies, brought her back to mines and made out. Then a few weeks later another date to the movies. Then I started getting her down to mines and we eventually did have sex. For the next month or so I would get her down to mines and have sex with her. Then she went on holiday with friends, if I remember correctly she did not return my texts or she made excuses whenever I suggested we meet up so it fizzled out from there. I also know that over the period I was taking her to movies and sleeping with her, she was sleeping with other guys.
After not speaking for about six months I ran into her at a local club and slept with her again. I can't honestly remember how it came about. I also slept with her the weekend after that.
Another couple of months came and past without me running into her or texting her but recently I have been getting a few IOI from her. She texted me wishing me a happy birthday out of the blue. More recently she has been liking all my status updates and pics on Facebook and a few weeks ago she text me at 2.00am saying she was in the same club as me earlier (I had already left) asking if I was enjoying my night. To me that is her opening with a text hoping I would ask her to come to mines after club finishes.
Last week I was going on a night out and a few days previous to it she popped into my head and I got the urge to sleep with her again. I texted her the night before I was due to go out and made some small talk with her, after a few fluff texts I asked if she was going out tomorrow she said yes and I said me too, if we are out and about we should catch a drink. She said sounded good and I ended the conversation.
During my night out I received a text from her asking if I was out. I responded by saying yes and telling her I was going out clubbing after it but don't know where. After a bit of small talk I told her the name of the club where I was going to go to and she responded by saying she is going there. So I bump into her in the club, I am quite drunk at this point and I just ask openely if she wants to come back to mines after club. She says yes but she has to take her friend who is drunk home. The club finishes I go home and she texts and tells me she is on her way. She comes back and I sleep with her.
The next day I got a text from her saying that she left her bank card at my bit. I tell her to come down on Monday and get it. She comes down on Monday at 9.00pm to pick it up and ends up staying till 3.00am. I thought she would be in my house five minutes tops. I didn't fuck her, to be honest I couldn't be bothered even trying, I had a slight hangover and wasn't horny. The whole time she was in my house we kissed for about ten seconds. When she was leaving I said she should come down next week and she agreed. That is the last contact I have had with her.
So that is my full history with this girl. I would like this girl to be a FB of mine, someone who is on tap, just a text or a phonecall away if I don't have better options. To be honest when I was taking her to movies I wanted her to be my GF as she is hot and I enjoyed her company. That was in my heavy AFC days before I got into this. After discovering the community and reading The Game, Players Guide and bits of the mystery method I now realise I scared her away by being a total AFC and having major supplicating behaviour.
But now I see a lot more clearly and all I want from her is to be a FB, the sex is really good and as I said above I enjoy her company. What I need to know is how do I make that happen? How do I play it from here? I deliberately said to her come down next week so she would be expecting me to text her and invite her down within the week like I would have done last year. But I am not going to do that as I want her to know I am not desperate and I have other options. I don't want to look to easy.
This is where I am at right now, I need help to make this girl a regular FB.
ALfie
CHAT