Hi guys, i am a new member however i have been a follower of PU for probably just over a year.

I am requesting some advice on a Long distance 'relationship' i am having at the moment.

So in the summer i was working in Europe and i met this really nice girl, we got on great etc etc. So i basically met her a week before i was leaving, i kiss closed on the 2nd night i met her out, and i f-closed two nights after that.

So then i had to return home to start a new job and she is staying where she is for a year of studying. So we have kept in touch through SPAM (usually at least twice a week) and text (you know all the usual) and i am returning to see her very soon (she's about 3hours away by plane).

I am to be honest quite new to the whole relationship idea, so we have said that when we meet up we have to talk about our situation etc. which i agree with because i'm working(placement) for the year and she's studying. So i can only realistically see her once a month(physically).

So like i said i am quite a newbie to the relationship side of things, i'd just like some advice from any of you guys on what can help keep attraction when living far away from eachother and also some things which you would consider important to bring up when i meet her 'to talk about us.' At the moment its unclear whether we are in a 'relationship', so i suppose we just have to talk about how we feel about the idea of keeping it on long distance and go from there?

Any help you guys can provide would be great!

in my humble opinion:

if you're only physically able to see her once a month, things aren't going to work out in terms of having a proper relationship. I was in the same situation except i lived lived two hours away on the train, and with busy lifestyles and train fares we decided it just wasn't going to happen in the way we would like it to.

It's hard when you have those sorts of feelings, but you have to put your happiness first.

Plenty more fish in the sea my man x

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-Neil