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| majixx11 | PostPosted: Sat Oct 08, 2011 11:14 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Oct 08, 2011 10:57 am Posts: 1 | | So I started hanging out with this 10 from the gym for the past 3 weeks, about 4 times a week. She slept over after a week and we have been on multiple dates and had sex several times since. She was really into me and things were going great. She is very self conscious about her weight even though she is very attractive and doesn't really need to worry about it... she's still a girl. Then the other night we were texting about a diet that we use suggested by the gym. She said I was being condescending and got really mad.
The next day things seem to go as normal with the texting at work and everything and then she goes "This whole diet and exercise thing has become an obsession and is no longer fun, it is ruining almost every aspect of my life, I don't know if I can handle being in a relationship right now." I heard her out a bit and we talked about the whole situation and she ended up concluding that she wants to take it slow.
Things are completely different now. She used to be fun and flirty and would eat up all my flirts. Now she is not very receptive (this entire conversation started just yesterday) and I haven't talked to her at all since I got out of the gym yesterday evening. So my question is, what's my next couple moves to get this thing back on track? She wants to take is slow so there is still some interest there that I can work with. I know the general idea is there are lots of chicks and just forget this one etc. I plan to start seeing other chicks again because I'm not waiting around for this girl but I still want to do work on this one and see if I can get back to where I was. Any help guys? Thanks!
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| jurupa | PostPosted: Sun Oct 09, 2011 9:49 am | |
Joined: Sun May 18, 2008 8:18 am Posts: 3102 Location: OC, California | | I know you want to try and save this, but take my word and drop her. Its way to much work to get things back on track. Saying that I think mention the gym made things worse tho.
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