basically i was asking if she was feeling better from her cold the other day and let her know that i wasnt feeling too much better from my cold.

Me:oh then its not too bad, im trying to get better in time for this party tomorrow but its not likely. cross your fingers for me yeah?

Her:haha will do

Me:Dontt just say itt, im a firm believer in this kinda thing haha. Im Trusting you!

Her:Hahah I will!

shes a tough one to text and to get a good conversation out of her is rough. im thinking about saying something like "I dont think the crossed fingers worked =[." i dont know what else to say but i want it to lead into just casually talking to her. getting to know her. any suggestions? help is needed haha

-Topher

What you wanna do is, appear happy and positive always... And give her something to answer. open ended questions.. Challenge her to think

For example: Instead of " I dont think it worked =(" ... what is she suppose to say to that?

How about : "I feel great, you must be goodluck. I wanna new car too! What can you do for that?"

Thats just an example, keep it positive. Frowns make you appear like a low life =]

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Great point! i will def use that and be more positive.
thanks