Hey guys,

Im in uni dorms and managed to sleep with the girl that lives across the hall (hb8) Now it would be damn convenient if i could get her as a fb but it seems like ive got a case of buyers remorse.

I played the quite mysterious bad boy who gave her no attention and kept focusing on the other girl across the hall and i could tell it was annoying her so i kept at it. Anyways, we had a few conversations here and there, and shes showing me stuff in her room, i tell her about my boxing background so she asks me to teach her how to throw a punch, next thing u know were play fighting which eventually lead to make out and slowly into sex, but right prior to it she gives me the whole ' im not one night stand material' but alls thats in my head is boning her, so i tell her "its kool baby, i like you" and managed to get her aroused to avoid the convo.

I know she likes me because the two weekends i return she jumps all over me and is like "DONT U EVER LEAVE ME AGAIN" whilst hitting me playfully. but since then looking back it seems like ive been doing the chasing after i slept with her, going into her room and whatnot and well make out but its like i cant get any further than that, i told her the other day that shes young and theres a lot of guys around and she shouldnt just settle for the first thing she sees, we still make out after this, and i eventually ask her if she wants to go to the cinema and she refuses, now the two time ive attempted to sleep with her again shes like " i cant because i have a rash after shaving" or "im too tired i hav lectures tomorrow"

Ive been a bit withdrawn the past few days and as i stepped out into the corridor she comes out and is like " hey can u ring my phone i cnt find it?" i think she was tryna get me to initiate contact, but i thought maybe ive acted too forward so i just left it at that and went back inside my room without saying anything.


Do i continue being withdrawn? Shall i ignore her? or do i just become friendly and build comfort with her? how do i do this without being friendzoned? im hella confused because shell kiss and whatnot but not go out with me nor have sex....

My objective: FB.

Im my experience when Ive had FB's it was a combination of three things.

1. You can get her off in bed (ill assume you can)
2. Shes not actively searching for a boyfriend
3. She knows you will keep her mouth shut about it

Normally #2 is the sticking point as most woman actively want "something real" in your case you also have #3 to worry about if you still live on the same floor. In your situation it seems like she wants you as a BF and isn't gonna give you any more vijayjay without commitment. Thats a tough nut to crack in my opinion unless you want to totally lie and lead her on. I would just be friendly and cool with her but not go out of my way to entertain her. If she can accept the dynamic that your attention requires sex she may give in, but I wouldn't bank on it.

mmm, shame, that would have been really convenient...

thoughts people?

I've been in this situation before back in my AFC days. I chose to lead her on and kinda half hoped i'd develop some kind of stronger feelings for the girl. I didn't... I ended up only sleeping with that girl for about 3months not because I genuinely liked her but because she was always out when I was and I never wanted to get with someone else and cause drama, so I just went with the easy option of going back to hers.

You want my advice? If you want some kind of variety in your life get out while you still can!

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