So an old friend of mine is visiting town for the weekend and she got HOT!!! She's a dancer where she's from, she came to visit her girlfriend but she's spent the entire time with me. We have kind of a weird history, she's a flirt. One night like 4 years back, she was dating my buddy and we became friends. They split and her and I were hanging out late watching movies. I'm the one back then who pulled the hotties at the parties, the girls who rejected all the guys, and that would eventually lead into a great relationship. So from experience, I can see most of the signs a girls into me, or so I thought.

She asked me to give her a backrub, I gave her shit but i eventually did. She took her top off and laid down. After the backrub I tried to make my move, she pulled back. Awkward as shit.

Well two weeks later she hits me up, I was with one of the girls I gamed down. She tells me she's at a hotel, their doing body shots and wants me to come lick some shots off of her. Since I was preoccupied I didn't go. She flipped out because I tried two weeks earlier and now when she throws it at me, I cop out. We remained friends and never brought it up again. She eventually moved across the country and became a "dancer".

Every so often ill get a text from her, a provocative sometimes topless picture, a voicemail saying these people don't know how to party out there, and i need to come join her and her gf, throwing me a ton of tall signs. Well i took it as attention.

Now since you know the history were back to where we were. She came out here for the weekend to see an old gf. She hit me up to let me know she's in town. I talk to her like once every couple months these days because we've both just been busy. She wanted to challenge me in beer pong. I asked how her friend looked. "She's a hottie" so I went picked up a pizza, and cleaned up my place.

They came out and her friend was decent, but I wad checking her out more. She talked about how we've known eachother for like 10 years, lie, said a couple more lies about the two of us, then talked about how I pull all these women. Then went on to what she's been up to, her friend would only respond with looking at me. I noticed that and were all just sitting there bullshitting. Well it was getting late and they had to go home. My roommate stayed back and I dropped em off.

That night I get a text asking if I'm up, she wants me to pick her up because her and her friend are fighting. I go get her, and we stay up drinking and just bullshitting. She shows me some pics and videos on her phone and leans on my shoulder. Later that night we crash out and she sleeps in my bed. No cuddling, but it wasn't an awkward this is my side that's your side kinda thing. I'm about to fall asleep and she asks for a back massage. I give her shit but I give her one. Move off then lay back down, she says I'm not done, I have to move to her arms now. I said that's not a back massage. "Well I lied, its a full body massage." I give her more shit, but I eventually do it. I was about to lay back down, "no do my tail bone now" "massage my butt now" "massage my legs now" "your doing it wrong".

After I'm done I lay back down and thought about making my move but the past popped in my head. I just crash out. The next morning we get up and talk for like an hour in bed. She's still topless but covered up.

We hang out for awhile then she heads back to her friends house for a shower. Later that night calls me again, she wants to kick it. This is last night. Same thing, we stay up, drink, go to bed, she wants another massage. I give her one, this time no top and a g string. Then pass out.

Now I'm confused. She has a boyfriend who's on a trip. She talks about him occasionally. She's exaggerated stories about me and her to me and other people. She's with me this entire time when she wasn't here to see me in the first place. And she's crashing in my bed when she can have the couch. I'm not trying to think too much about it but just wanted to see what you guys thought.

In short...you are satisfying her needs. . . . . She is getting a great sence of satisfaction from the interaction. . . .

Well this morning she told my roommate I bet its nothing new seeing a random girl come out of his room huh? Later I sent her a text saying she owed me a massage "huh:-)" and I made a comment on my fb tonite about staying up all nite with no sleep "hahaha yea right!!! Maybe its because people keep calling you " which her bf calls from 3 to 5 am so I joke around commenting "omfg you might be right. I think u solved it. I'll tell u what, next time I'm pickin up and tell em their dismissed 'dismissed?' Shut up.. ok? *click*" she play slaps me in the arm laughs and calls me an ass. It's just different because I normally know what to do, I normally don't think just roll with it, but with this, when i do notice small details I think about what happened before, ya know?

sounds like a tease in the worst way.

move on.

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Well I ended up sleeping with her last night. After we talked turns out she's been wantin me since back when i made my move years ago. She was actually the one who initiated it. :p

Good lad

What happened?

I already had an idea, like i said, I'm the one out of my friends when it comes to women i just wanted input, I guess vent lol. But we went and picked up some friends, one of which she used to date. The guilt kicked in but he didn't care lol. She was fuckin with me on the way back to town, acting like shes gonna poke me, then later laid her head on my shoulder. We got to the house, cracked open a few drinks, and I cooked some chicken. She was bragging to everyone all day to people that already knew that I can cook my ass off. I laughed. Finished the chicken and she walked in, wouldn't let me around, so i flicked her in the throat. I felt she was trying to make her move there but its not that easy. You have to work for me. She play slapped me and called me an ass.

Then we all played a few drinking games, and she wanted to take some pics for Facebook. She took a couple. Told me to take mine out. She wanted to take a pic with me. I said hold on, went and took a few pics with me and the other people, she did the same. One thing I noticed last night is she ALWAYS sits next to me. Because once i sat down and made a drink, there she was. Let's take a pic, I took out my phone and snapped a pic. Before I did she kissed my cheek. I acted like I didn't notice, took a couple more goofy pics and then she kissed my cheek again. She said hold on, this will be better and stuck her tongue down my throat and tried to climb on my lap. I was like hold on hold on lol because i didn't want to do anything in front of people, especially one of her exs who when brought up to her, they kind of messed around a little, not dated. Granted it was like 4-5 years ago but its still a respect factor. I wont pull the brakes for many people when it comes to women but he is one of my best buds. He didn't care, he had a smile on his face all night. Like 5 minutes later she wanted to go to bed, I already knew what time it was. Said she was tired and asked if i was ready for bed. I played a bullshit yawn looked at my phone for the time. Came back there and she already had her top off saying she wants a full body massage. I gave the massage and then continued where we left off on the couch. She took out a toy of hers and it was game over. She wanted me to spit on her, choke her, completely dominate her.

About an hour later we were through and I asked her, so exactly how long have you wanted to do this? She responds by asking me the same question. I said no i asked you first, then said well ive been wanting this since back when you wanted me to come take body shots off you. She said she's wanted this since I tried before, and how shes probably the only girl who shot me down. I said not anymore. She knows I'm moving next year and wants me to move down by her, and visit back and forth till I do. She said shes been waiting all weekend for me to make a move. I was actually surprised how well we clicked this weekend. And the entire reason why I tripped was over my friend, the next morning I walk out in my shorts and him and another chick are making eggs and Bacon. "JESUS LOOK AT YOUR BACK!!! SHE BIT THE SHIT OUT OF YOUR SHOULDERS TOO!!! HAHAHA we could hear you guys, I already knew she liked you bro." I know I felt bad though man. "Don't bro, I'm not mad, let's play some soul cal" lol all and all i had a great weekend.