I'm still a beginner and just starting out so I have been asking girls directions to a place in order to get rid of AA. It boosts my state but I can still say that I'm extremely nervous when I try to start a conversation with a random girl just because of lack of experience with interacting with them, and the fact that I've never really put myself out there and tryed it yet. So my question is What motivated you to start approaching girls, What did you start off saying to get over AA, how long did it take you to get good at talking to girls, and how long would you say it will take to get a social circle? Once again I really do appreciate you taking the time to answer these questions.

....as long as you can understand, that its just about going for what you want and having the balls to do it. You can read about the best openers, DHV stories, how to be alpha, how to turn her on and so on, but eventually you understand, that all this is for the guys who want to take the easy way, they are looking for the abracadabra. You just have to grow some confidence and you do it by DOING IT.

Dude, welcome to the community. Or should I say, the real world.

It doesnt take time, it takes practice. Effort, dedication and balls.


How long does it take before you get good? Get rid of AA, get laid? I dont know. Varies from person to person. Based on how much practice they get and how fast they recover from a crash and burn.
How good is good? Do you mean mPUA good? Some people never reach that. Some do it in a matter of months.

How long time does it take to get better? Not long at all. if you follow this piece of advice. "If you do something good, LEARN from it. If you do something bad, LEARN from it. If you succeed, LEARN from it. If you fail LEARN from it."

There is no such thing as a failed set if you use whatever happened to improve your skills.


So what Im saying. What counts is not time, it is time in field.

So get out there and practice. And remember this quote.

"Everytime you threw a brick at my head or said I smelled; it hurt, but it could never hurt more than everyday of my life just being me."
- Kung Fu Panda

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn