I'm an AFC with no game so bear with me.

I've had my eye on this girl in class and she sat beside me today. I saw that she had assignment completed that's not due until Friday and when I asked if it's due today (to which she responded no) I threw a neg asking if she completed it because she's a keener.

In the middle of class I slipped her a note saying I'm bored and asking her if she wants to play to tic-tac-toe(an approach I found on these forums), she giggled and said okay.

We went back and fourth, I tried not too seem to eager to play, answering texts when it was my turn, listening to the proff, just little things.

I was nervous as shit inside and could feel my heart racing but tried not to let her see that. Anyways I wrote first to five wins, wins the game. It last about 20 minutes or so and eventually I won.

Here's where I started getting really nervous as I didn't know what to follow up with. She went back to surfing the net on her pc and such and I just tried look busy on my phone/laptop but was really over thinking every little detail.

So anyways, as she was leaving for her next class I said something to the effect of, "oh by the way, you owe me a coffee" "for what?" "for those games I won" "Oh do, I? (giggled)" "Yeah".

I didn't really get to DHV which I know messed up on but I couldn't think of anything to do in the middle of class. Also, I wanted say something like "This guy's boring I need a coffee to wake me up, you should join me...only for a bit though because I've got somewhere to be." But it was evident she had another class right after and I really did have somewhere to be right after class that I couldn't postpone.

So please criticize, comment, advise, suggest, whatever!

Also, what do I do next class? I know she won't be there Friday. I was thinking going there early and sitting in the same spot (she knows I sit there every class) and seeing if she sits beside me like she did today. If she sits beside me what do I do? Should I bring up the coffee?

If she doesn't sit beside me or for whatever reason we don't end up beside each other should I just notch up to a rejection and forget about it?

DRW cheers for the balls to play tic tac game with her in the middle of class but your ideology has to change a bit if you want to get laid. Here are 2 pointers that really seeded up my PUA skills and helped me get laid.
1) Don't try to impress- this refers to anyone guys or girls. Once a girl gives you interest you will feel your gut get tight and you will feel that you have to impress her, it's natural. Girls like a guy who is independent and doesn't try to impress anyone but himself.
2) Be willing to walk away if your rules are violated - this will boost your confidence a lot because you are not putting all your cards in. When you have a mentality of "will not walk away no matter what" it tells the girl she can do anything she wants and still not loose you. She can be your friends not answer your calls and do all sorts of things because you will be there for her anyways. On the other hand a guy who is willing to walk off shows the girl he isn't desperate and will have fun whether with her or without her. He also tells the girl that she can lose him if she doesn't behave according to his rules and he shows her he has standards not like the other 95% of the guys out there who are willing to cope with anything.

Follow these two rules and you'll see some success guarantee. I tried it myself I told others to try it and it always worked so far. Good luck. Keep me updated on what happened.

- Amazing Art -

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Amazing Art,

I'm a bit confused by your advice.

1)I thought by DHVing I am trying to impress the girl. ESP, palmistry, magic tricks, etc. aren't these all tactics to impress her?

2)I don't really have rules as I don't really know what I'm doing.

Do you have any advice for next class? If she sits beside me, do I bring up the coffee? If she doesn't sit beside should I approach her or just forget about it?

Honestly dude, I wouldn't recommend that you neg. Based on your this guys boring statement it makes me think your not good at negging and have low self esteem.

I hope i'm not being to judgmental. I just think you should be a little bit nicer. Don't try so hard to neg this girl. She is in class with you and you don't want to make her feel like shit every time she sees you. Plus what normally happens to negs in classroom situations is that they backfire and you end up looking like a loser for saying one.

Just play games and stay positive. If you are lucky she will remind you of the coffee date and then your in. But if you keep pushing you are going to run into a brick wall.

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I appreciate your honesty and don't think you're being too judgmental. I only negged her once and wasn't planning on doing it again anyway.

Basically you're advising me to wait and see if she brings it up otherwise if I keep asking about it won't do any good?

Let's say she decides to sit beside me (potential IOI, I think) but doesn't bring it up. Should I act as if I forgot about it? Mention it when saying goodbye? What do you think?

I would just stay consistent with how you acted before. It is okay to keep asking her out for coffee as long as you don't neg her and make her feel bad if she says no. Keep being persistent and stay positive.

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