So the past couple weeks I've been hanging out with my roommate's good friend from back home. This girl is amazing. A few weeks ago, we split a bottle of wine at my place and talked for hours. We ended up making out for a bit but I told her to go hang out with my (other) guy roommate for a before it got too heavy because I had to hand an assignment in by midnight. We kissed again a few days later. We exchanged texts for a bit after that but it wasn't really going anywhere so I went out and had sex with another girl to get my mind off of her.

Anyway, the other day we hung out alone for the first time since 2 weeks ago when all of this happened and we went to see a movie. Afterward, we went back to my place where I friend zoned her because if we did anything it would really upset my girl roommate (my roommate doesn't know we've even made out). We end up talking for a few more hours and I get her to really open up to me, telling me stuff she said she's never told anyone. At the end of the night we hug, but as she's walking towards the elevator in the hall of my building a run up to her and we make out for a bit.

I have no problems getting laid regularly but I never seem to end up with the girls I want. We haven't talked about what happened since Friday but we texted a bit yesterday "I had a good time last night" etc. I want to play this right but she isn't chasing me like most girls do at this point so I'm not sure what to do. Maybe it's because she feels really vulnerable now that she's opened up so much (she said she isn't used to it)

Any advice on what I should do next?

Heres a tip
think about your best friend, the male one
would you f**k him?
thats what she sees you as now that you LJBF'd her
Next time keep your options open, and when she told you everything about her you turned into her emotional tampon and shes never going to go further down "that" road with you.

Seriously? Even in spite of the fact that we made out after opening up to each other? You'd think that would leave this wide open for me.

The whole friend zone thing is bullshit in my mind. I have fucked every "friend" I've had except for one or two. Once they start opening up to you, game over. She trusts you, made out with you, etc... Balls in your court just reel her in now. Re-create that night with the wine and make out with her again. Let things go from there.

See, that's what I'm talking about. I thought a major component of the game was that you have to be multidimensional ie. maintain sexual tension/cocky funny while talking about serious stuff/opening up.being vulnerable. My concern is that i'm used to girls chasing me after situations like this and she hasn't been. I try to be pretty objective when it comes to these things and I think I played it perfectly. How should I approach her next time if I want to recreate the night with the wine?

Theres a huge difference between a friend and LJBF.... you know that right?
Sakic the tactic your using is telling a girl "i dont like you" so they chase you even more, the bad thing about this is - when you let her get you she'll move on because your boring and not a challenge. this is useful for quick lays but not long relationships.
The reason I say shes not gunna be into you is once she can tell you everything, and you can be her shoulder to cry on, shes probly not going to risk all that to have a "girlfriend" title. It's like getting to the 1million dollar question on who wants to be a millionaire and you have no lifelines left, most people dont go for it because hey, you have hundreds of thousands of dollars already why lose that?
Anyways if ur gunna do what stealth says be quicker this time, dates arnt meant to be hours long (and in no way does making out mean a girl is yours, more likely it can mean you are hers)

yeah. Dont recreate the night with the wine next time. You need a shorter faster date, with a higher more intense game. Confuse her. Shel be second guessing who she thought you were, and (maybe) your placement in the F zone.

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Any suggestions on a faster date?

anything that doesnt involve hours of one on one emotional bonding.. Something high energy, where she can see you at your best. anything really, a club, an amusement park, kickin it with a group of friends, whatever you like man. but keep it clean, fresh, and short. Leave her wanting more

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