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PostPosted: Wed Oct 05, 2011 10:33 am 
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So I've been gaming this girl for a long time now an I've desided that I like her the most out of my current selections, except that I have no idea how to ask her out, we chill alot and she waits for me to get off work and our convs have had more sexual tension than ever... How would you guys lay it down straight to someone? I just don't seem to know the words to say for such a situation.. that's probably my biggest sticky point :(

We chill in her car or my car, she's been to my room once a few months ago, nothing happen, I'm just informing the setting of most of our encounters

Thanks in advance!

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So I've been gaming this girl for a long time now an I've desided that I like her the most out of my current selections, except that I have no idea how to ask her out, we chill alot and she waits for me to get off work and our convs have had more sexual tension than ever... How would you guys lay it down straight to someone? I just don't seem to know the words to say for such a situation.. that's probably my biggest sticky point :(

We chill in her car or my car, she's been to my room once a few months ago, nothing happen, I'm just informing the setting of most of our encounters

Thanks in advance!
You shouldnt have ANY problems asking out a girl who waits for you and visits your room...I mean, in theory it sounds like you've been out a lot lol.

Maybe this could help: http://www.bosproject.com/joinfree.php? ... ghtmorning

Good Luck :)

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 05, 2011 12:50 pm 
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Hi! Ty for the reply :)

The thing is, I can see all the signs and everything that she wants me, I just can't find the words to let her know I want her, can't make it needy or she'll spook, I can't just be like "hey, let's hook up" I mean I guess I could, mayhaps it would work... But if you were to ask a girl out, or tell her you've a crush on her and wanna date her, what would you say? Would it be a simple line or does it involve more game that Im not aware of...?

Thanks again! I'll keep plowin til success is assured :P

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I don't understand. Are you trying to date her exclusively? Sounds to me like you are actually friends. Have you kissed her?


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If you have enough touching and sexual vibe with her finding the right word are not necessary.

U want to hook up with her correct? Instead of going from hanging out to date to hook up, just go for the hook up.

Invite her over and vibe with her. When I tell a girl wants a kiss, I just say "hey," then go for the kiss.


Or use mystery kiss close.

"Do u want to kiss me?"

Yes - you go for it
Idk or maybe u say, "let's find out" and go for it.
No - u say i didnt say u could

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 05, 2011 5:05 pm 
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Omg! That MM stuff is win, I'll use that next time we chill, yah I do wanna get w her but she's not just any girl, she's special and I've liked her for years, I've tried to game her and up til a few months ago it was all fail, I haven't done much about kino tho I do believe that it wouldn't be a problem, if I can get that kiss in it's all smooth after that... I just fail at getting thru that point, thank you! :)

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Yea good look man. The key is to isolate and go for it.

Don't put to much pressure on your self either, have fun with it.

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