Let's start by giving you guys a brief description of my girlfriend: 25 years old, christian girl that has a cross tatooed on her forearm, very touchy feely, has very strict parents, conservative family.

I am questioning her character because I'm trying to understand who she is.

So she tells me that she had sex with only 2 guys in her life which I believe is true. The thing that I don't really understand is that she tells me she gave a blowjob at 14 years old. Isn't that weird that a girl can give a bj at 14 but she wait until she is 22 years old to have sex for the first time? Problem here is that I really think it is true, but I am wondering why? Is it normal for girls that wait to have sex until that late to do stuff like that very young?

She told me she got fingered or gave handjob/blowjob to 9-10 guys. She's the type of girl that when she was younger had a lot of 2 weeks kind of thing boyfriends that she would only make out with but that she wouldn't go further with them. She told me she didn't want to have sex until she would find ''The one'' but at 22 she was tired of waiting and wanted to know what sex felt like so that's why she done it. But what I don't understand is that she only had 1 serious relationship in her life that lasted 9 months and she never had sex with that guy (it was before she lost her virginity). The 2 guys she had sex with were not boyfriends and were not guys that she knew that she would end up with or be ''The one''. So what I don't get is how come she never got into any serious relationships at 25 years old, she been single for so long yet she didn't fuck many dudes and she never got attached emotionally. Is that normal behaviour? Isn't it contradictory?

The biggest reason that all those questions came, is because I was able to have sex with her after 1 week. I asked her how come and she said that she wanted to be more open minded and that she didnt have any sex for a long time so she was really horny + she was very attracted to me. She told me that she already see herself married to me, that she never felt that way towards someone before, that she never used to see somebody so often during the week and that I make her very happy. I know that the sex is mind blowing I make her orgasm like there's no tomorrow. But am I being fooled out? How can I have sex with her so fast if she only had sex with 2 guys at 25 years old? I really have doubts that she lied to me about her past sex life because I have been asking her questions and make her repeat her stories and the stories are always the same. Never did I catch 1 slight difference in what she tells me. Always the same details. But still, could she be hidding it from me?

She knows that I banged a bunch of girls and she actually don't seem to be jealous or mad or whatever. She actually asks me to tell her my stories and she seems to enjoy them. Isn't it supposed to be the other way around? Like girls get mad when they know u had a lot of girls? She told me that she would find it disgusting if I had banged over an X amount of girls but that now it's cool she has no problem with it. What do u guys think of that?

She's the type that never takes any drug. She smoked pot once in her life just to try it. But, she is down to take extascy but just for 1 time even though she never did drugs. She says she wants to know what it feels like. Is that supposed to be an alarm for me? Or could it really be just an experiment for her and I shouldn't be worried that she would come and start getting on heavy drugs one day?

Mainly I just want to know ur opinions on what kind of person you guys think she is. I tried to give u as much information as I could so you can have a good global outlook on her. Would be very appreciated if you guys can give me ur input on that. I really love her and I know I question a lot, it's just that I had a previous relationship with a girl who kept lying so I don't trust to easily what a girl say to me. I wanna know what make sense to you guys and what not and why.

Thx

Hey man, can you give us a summary of all that you wrote? :p

Honestly, you won't get many responses if you make people read all that stuff lol. Sorry.

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Only focus on present days, what the hell does it matter her past, people change, so the girl she was 5 years or 1 year maybe is not the same, Talking about the past can fuck a relationship. If I were I would dump her why? Because you are too insecure, you want someone to tell its okay she is not lying to you, none of us know, maybe she is or maybe she is not( Id say she is lying and you better run)! But only one person needs to trust her IS YOU BUT at this point your alarm is going crazy telling her she is bad business, Sorry for being too strict but asking if she is takes down ecstasy if she is going to become a drug addict… I don’t know how to respond,overeacting maybe (strange a catholic girl wants to try ectasy yes). Again overeacting on the she hugs and kino friends, have girl friends who are fucking faithfull but hey when they see me they hug me kiss me very friendly, there boyfriends are fucking unreactive and good reasons they are LIKE THAT WITH THERE CLOSEST FRIEND, some girls are more friendly but again insecure.

Let me ask you , would you find disturbing if a girl had sex with 30 guys but waited more than 1month and half to fucked you?


Red Flags: Havent any problem with your ex g/fs, yeah no problem with banging girls but exs are always a problem she not having problems for me it’s a big red flag.
2- Your insecure it will mess both of you. You will never trust her you will have so many doubts in your head. That everytime she tells you are going to think if she is lying or not. Do yourself a favor and dump her

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Let me ask you , would you find disturbing if a girl had sex with 30 guys but waited more than 1month and half to fucked you?
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I have to admit I never saw it that way... but I never had to wait that long to get sex from a girl so I can't really tell but yes maybe I would actually find it disturbing...

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Red Flags: Havent any problem with your ex g/fs, yeah no problem with banging girls but exs are always a problem she not having problems for me it’s a big red flag.
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Actually she is extremely jealous about my ex g/f. She enjoys all my pick up stories, the how I picked them up and stuff like that but she hates my ex. She is very jealous from anything that is related to my ex.

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2- Your insecure it will mess both of you. You will never trust her you will have so many doubts in your head. That everytime she tells you are going to think if she is lying or not. Do yourself a favor and dump her
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I'm insecure, yes because I'm always wondering if she told me the truth but I know that she is a good girl that she is taking care of me and I know she's very faithfull... I'd have a hard time dumping her because I feel that the problem comes from me so if it was her or another it could be the same situation. I have strong self confidence but I don't know why that this thing bothers me a lot.

Alright I took out a lot of the text that I felt that was unimportant!