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PostPosted: Tue Oct 04, 2011 7:42 pm 
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Since I didn't get anymore replies on my last post( what-the-f-do-i-do-vt116780.html ) I just went with my gut instinct and sent her the "So I'm just gonna say a simple Goodbye....etc" message(check the other post if you want more info).
And I got 2 messages from her after that. One :noexpression: smiley. And the second "why do you have to be so categorical :( ..."
So, does that mean she actually does have some interest in me? Is that reponse something I can build upon and get her to invest abit? And if so how do you guys think I should respond and take it from here? Or should I just ignore her and go on with my life?
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P.S. Olso, if your answer is to build on it, how long should I wait till I reply? I was thinking tomorrow, but maybe that would be pushing it?


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 04, 2011 7:44 pm 
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Call her and ask what's going on. Try to find her motivation for her weird behaviour and try to calm her.


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 04, 2011 7:47 pm 
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I don't have her number, I forgot my phone home when we had our date :) , and it didn't feel right taking it on a piece of paper.... Our conversation is online.


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 04, 2011 9:17 pm 
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I would rather almost certainly say that she is just trying to play around with you but you should be very careful what you reply so that she does not get offended. But you should definitely call her :)


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 04, 2011 9:50 pm 
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I didn´t read the bit about you chatting online. I would say that you keep on playing with her and see where it leads you.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 05, 2011 9:29 am 
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Yeah, well I think I've gotten myself into a situation I don't think I can get out of anymore. I'm not even sure I want to get out of it, I mean it would be very cool if she liked me, but I just don't feel like she does.
After her "why do you have to be so categorical" message I replied with "Ok, take it slow, calm down. It's not that I am categorical, it's just I wouldn't want it to end with you beeing right."
When she will ask "right about what?" or something like that I plan to draw her attention about something she said earlier in our conversation "if you believe I've made you waste your time, I am sorry, I didn't have that intention". So I plan to say "I don't want to end up actually wasting my time on a girl that doesn't seem to have any interest in me."
But I don't know, would that make her open up and give me some sign that she likes me, or would it just insult her and reinforce her fears that I don't like her? What do you guys think, any other better reply I could send?


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 05, 2011 8:36 pm 
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I would probably say it´s game over with this chick. I wouldn´t loose any more time on her, my advise to you would be to go out on the fiel and keep on sarging :) You could keep texting but I wouldn´t recommend it.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 06, 2011 10:21 am 
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Yeah, I kinda figured that too. :cry: Now I got to sum up the determination to stop talking with her, since we chated some more since those msg's and even played a little game.


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