Basically i asked this girl out for dinner, she agreed but text me saying shes "okay for a 'friendly' dinner tomorrow"

What does she mean by friendly? Friendly as in not over the top romantic or friendly as in shes not interested but will give me the time of day?

More details , history with this girl. She can be playing hard to get but more details.

Over the years, I learn to ignore the bullshit that girls always throw at guys. Either she means it or just her ASD or her game/playing hard to get, stop giving a fuck about it. You will find out on the date, most of the time, those things don't mean anything, woman are emotional creatures, their logic isn't rational. What important is the way you make them feel.
Who cares if she intends for it to be friendly dinner only, if you can sexual frame and make her arousal, of course she will keep saying "this is only a friendly dinner, we CANT do this" while not doing anything to stop you, by the end of the night, she'll be naked on your bed.

At this moment, she is not that into you.

But girls change per moment.

If she has a great time with you during the dinner, she will develop emotions for you.

Don't let the sentence 'friendly dinner' discourage you !!

SHe agrees for dinner, so the game is still on!

We kissed on two nights out. She knows im interested and has said she wants to get to know each other more but shes just left a long term relationship and not sure what she wants.

Major confidence blow. not sure how to run with this SPAM

For me taohackne nailed it, just do your thing, I had girls telling me “ where are we going” “ we are just going to talk right” but in the end was jumping on me, she is just playing hard to get you have two choices going as taohackne told you, or for those type girls that make out then goes friendly mode, it seriously pisses me off so I play there game I go fully cock mode and goes has friend, who does a lot of push\pull but never go for the kiss, I just tease them to death ofc it can backfire but i dont give a damn for that type of girls, she already knows in her head what she is going, she accepted going for a dinner ofc she expecting to be something more so don’t worry. Girls are not that naïve but are manipulative enough.

Thanks, shes told me she wants to get to know me more...etc so i guess i just need to go full cock on mode. I think im just going to play it cool and be in command. Then maybe let her come to me next time