Ok so i have started getting a few more girls (thanks forum ) but im fair sure im not making her orgasm!!
I have been told im good at fingering a girl but i have really no clue what im doing :/
nor eating her out
and sex perhaps im not lasting long enough? :/

Anyone want to point me in the right direction to learn this stuff? or advise ?

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I can tell you this much On 90% of all "adult" websites you can usually find some good how to videos! Just use your prefered websites search feature and usually you come up trumps.

Also, there is nothing wrong with asking the girl what makes her tick, what she enjoys. Because every girl knows exactly what is best for her, positions that make her cum hardest etc. I suggest you try and get a FB*, this way you have a sexual partner that you can use to learn new tricks, and become more confident in bed. However the best part of having a FB is that with regular sex, you will become more comfortable with each other to say " well i would like to try abit of bondage, or i want to try ...xxxx...." and chances are she will be like " yeah ok, we can try this".

I personally learnt the most about sex when i had a long term FB, and also when i was in a LTR. What helped me alot was watching porn with the girl whilst having sex. She picks one she is interested in and we did what they did. Also made her super horny

Hope this helped.

*FB = friends with benefits

To make a woman come, it's all about consistency. Fingering is much better for this purpose than penetration, since you can target her clitoris and do some light penetration with your fingers all at the same time.

The first thing you should do is to know where to find the clitoris. I know it sounds ridiculous, but you'd be amazed to know how many men out there are unable to find it. By the way, I'm not talking about massaging the clitoris area, but to actually massage the clitoris itself (bean-shape tissue). This drives women insane, especially those who happen to be extra sensitive (and there are many of them out there).

When it comes to penetration with your fingers, try to go as deep as possible with your middle finger, and do rotations. 1 finger is enough. If you try 2 fingers, you might get tired soon.

Finger her at a moderate speed. Not too fast, not too slow. Don't stop, and watch for her body language. If at some point you notice she moans more than usual, you know that's a sensitive spot for her. Keep doing that.

When you feel she's getting very excited, don't rush it. Men make the mistake of speeding things up to make her cum faster. On the contrary, don't change anything, and keep the same speed.

Tell her to let you know when she's about to cum. If she does, speed things up as much as possible. If she doesn't but you know she's near cumming, go all out (more penetration, more rubbing, more everything).

I have these and more guidelines in my website (check the link below), so please feel free to visit.

If you have any questions, please let me know.

Go get'em champ

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Obviously there's a large physical aspect to the orgasm. But there's an even bigger mental aspect. Do you know what turns her on? Are you dominant enough that she'd get wet without physical stimulation. Obviously that happens all the time, but then sometimes we get into the bedroom and forget all of that. Physical stimulation is probably not the problem here. Try new stuff, and talk dirty, more than focusing on getting a degree in gynecology.

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Thanks guys, i never considered that it was a mental issue!

since that post i got a girl off without even fingering her (being very dominant in a rough makeout sesh)

now my last sp is needing a place for my seductions to take place haha!

If you want to make her come get good at foreplay, and dirty talk. You'd be surprised how much faster they come when you set them up properly.