Slightly confused at whether this is a good or bad sign.
I've read countless times that these are not good compliments, as they are traits of the "nice guy"

However, although I am very caring for her, I still tease her (challenge her) and have a relationship in which I am socially and sexually the more dominant one, which it seems she really likes about me.
So I don't think I really AM the "nice guy" personally...but I'm wondering whether these compliments are going to eventually lead to disaster in the relationship.

Please ignore any gramatical errors or poorly worded sentences, because I'm really sleep deprived at the moment. Long story.

ANYWAY
I guess what I'm really getting at is:
-How do I know if I have fallen into the "Nice guy" category?
-Are these compliments indicative of that?


Apart from that everything is going well. She says she loves me and the sex is great and frequent. It's just this one thing which occured to me today "Hang on, maybe she sees me as a pussy and eventually won't be sexually attracted to me?"

Also I asked her "How can you be so sexually attracted to something you find cute?"
Her response was "I don't understand how I am either! You're an exception to that" or something along those lines.

THANKYOU - night guys. I'm fuckedddddddd

Aren't you by asking this revealing your inconfidence to her? It looks like asking "I am afraid that xy ..."

...being called "cute" isn't bad, asking your girl how she can be attracted to cute in a sexual way, is bad. There is a slight difference between being in a relationship and being single in how you interact with a girl. She's a fuckin girl, she's fuckin you, and dating you, she's gonna say shit like that all the time. Calm down, because when people talk about the cliche "nice guy" who fails with women, it isn't his compassion that causes problems. It's the low self-esteem, insecurity, and lack of a spine that are the problems.

Oh don't worry, I wasn't asking in a "How can you POSSIBLY be attracted to something that's cute?""
It was more of a tongue in cheek question, because I know I turn her on and tease her in bed, and she knows I know that, so in a way I was teasing her. But at the same time, I was curious to see how she would answer.

And very good points about what makes a "nice guy" bad. Thankyou

Well, this might come as a shocker to you (it came to me too) but women actually consider,

cute > hot

Women will often say "He is/You are very cute", to a guy they find very attractive. (Credit goes to Sex and the City)

And honestly, she called you an 'exception' and she meant it in a good way, I'd be stoked about being 'different' to her, and her accepting that.

Aren't you?

Don't think too much. She's being kind in her affections towards you, accept them like a man. And take care of her back.

Good luck.

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Alright
Thanks Don, great perspective.