I'll try to make this short and to the point. Things were going great with this girl. Texting was going great. We hung out and everything went great. I took her out to a place she had never been to before. And we ate food that she had never eaten before. I ran some NLP routines on her. As a result she opened up to me about her first sexual experience. I made her blush on a few occasions. I didn't make a move. She mentioned she had never been in love and that she was afraid to. Anyway. We made plans to go out again. I told her it was a surprise and that she would have to wait. She seemed excited. On the day of the "date" she canceled on me and said she had to hang out with her mom because she was going through some rough times. I said ok. I attempted to hang out with her and invited her to eat on a few occasions. She said no because she didn't have money. I eventually stopped inviting her to places because I didn't want to seem desperate. I stopped texting her for a few days. She texted me eventually. She said she was drinking tea, which I introduced her to, and that it reminded her of me. I said "Thank God for tea or you'd probably forget about me altogether". She said "no the gym reminds me of you too". and then I made up a cheesy pick up line and she replied with a cheesy pick up line of her own. I told her "don't be trying to run game on me, I aint that easy". She said "It comes out naturally " anyway the last thing she said was "You can be my sunshine in the rain" I replied with ";)" Then I asked her to lunch again. She said it was her dad's bday and that they were going out for that. and then I FUCKED up. I went out that night and got completely wasted. I blacked out and texted her "I'm at a sorority party and there are a ton of beautiful girls, but I can't seem to get you out of my head". Had I not been blacked out I would not have texted that. That happened friday and she hasn't texted me back since. On Saturday though, She "liked" my status update that read "Never drinking again".

I would appreciate some advice on what I should do next. I don't plan on texting her back. Not unless she texts me first.

You first mistake was "Thank God for tea or you'd probably forget about me altogether". You put all this self control into not responding (why? to show her how not desperate you are) only to finally admit how desperately you've been anticipating her to text you back by what you said here.

Anyway, its a good thing she appears to like you and is giving you second chances! Maybe you're thinking that when she "liked" your facebook status, it means that she is indicating how much she "doesn't like" the drunken thing you did before. I wouldn't worry about that. The fact is, she's monitoring your facebook updates, which means she's still interested in you.

I would text her with something simple to reestablish communication. When she replies, ask her if she's interested in joining you to do something, perhaps joining you and your friends in going to some live music or something.

All I can say is she's still interested after the text but she is in total control......hopefully some of the forum heavy weights will help you......And try to read a little more about PUA's and their ways....you need be a little smoother.... than the "tea" text