I'm going thru 2 situations right now.

I'm from America but we have an exchange student at my college that ive been hanging with some. Her English is not perfect but it is good enough she can communicate with people. She is here for a year and she tells me she wants to experience my "american culture." I take her to bars and she comes over and stuff. She tells me she thinks I'm "very handsome" and the "coolest" and "funniest" person she has met in America. When we are in a bar she will lean in almost having her face against mine while we talk. She has even stayed in my bed 2 times..which apparently is a no-no in France unless you're married or bf/gf ..something like that. She even wants to cook me dinner a lot.

I want to hook up with her but I'm afraid of the cultural differences. I'm not sure of what french people do and don't. Do they make out? have sex? shave their vagina? All things i think about..making me hesitant about making a move or advancing kino.

2ND SITUATION

I'll keep it short. I have been hooking up with a neighbor for about 4 weeks. She got out of a 4yr relationship the day she met me and we have been hanging/making out since. I finally got sex with her but i did something in sex which made her leave! (had a play-list playing and it ended so i pulled out and went to change music..pissed her the fuck off apparently..i was drunk!) Since we haven't talked much and we haven't seen eachother. I fucked up..i know. SPAM i am freezing her out until she contacts me..nothing else i can do. We are neighbors too so there is the chance we could all hang out one night(which im hoping for) I guess what i want to know is..where does having had sex with a girl put you with her? As in shes done it before so she'll do it again?

Thanks guys

1. Fuck culture, just go for it. Game her like you would any other girl.

2. Wow, you did fuck up. Interrupting sex to put on a new song

Mate you made my day laugh so hard with your post. Lets begin so you think French girls are different? Im pretty sure they have the same anatomy as girls. So fuck the culture, it doesn’t make any difference they have a vagina and you have dick, you just have to insert it. If they make out of course they make it where do you live? Do you think American girls are the only who make out. Believe me French ppl are very open minded. If they shave or not that for you to … , that girl is into to you were in her bed you find her attractive and you didn’t move because you were thinking if France is in Europe or Asia lol come on dude.

I didn’t understand your two last question but, you fucked up really bad, with a girl that is problem grieving for the fact that she lost her boyfriend (maybe not you didn’t give any details if she is heartbroken or not), but she probably with you for lifting her ego, she is in slut mode( again I’m might be wrong I’m assuming the relationship end badly so disregard my previous comments if not) . Nicely going for stopping sex and going to change the music that was one the funniest thing I ever heard, I would contact her again, why freeze when you were the one that did the mistake. Sent her txt asking to meet up.

thanks for replies! The reason i think i should freeze her out is because she flaked on me twice since then. That incident happened last wednesday. and we had plans to go out on fri. She said she had to work blah blah..i ignored her. She came over saturday night and hung out. THEN on sunday i told her to call me when she got home..she never did. I text on the following Wed and she was a total bitch, giving me 1-2 word answers..SO i say freeze out?