Alright so I been chatting this girl up right. Out of a sudden she sent me a text saying that "I am a nice guy" is this suppose to mean something?

Some people would say that a girl giving you a compliment like that would be considered as an IOI. But in my opinion, you do not want to be a nice guy, nice guys dont get anywhere.

watch kezia nobles video about the distinctions between the nice guy, the good guy and the bad guy.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TN3_uref ... re=related

It depends a lot on the girl in question, for some it's an IOI for others it's a statement of intent (and that is not good)

basically what i would do is ignore it and continue gaming, I have seen too many guys back out because they got one or two responses they interprets as bad, persistence will get you laid, and you shouldn't just write of a response as bad, since your reality may not, and actually rarely is the same as hers.

If however she is about to put you in the LJBF zone, don't sweat it, if you keep a sexual personality you can still whore around with her, as a matter of fact most of my female friends are girls I have been friends with for a long time, then slept with over maybe six or seven months before we've drifted back into the LJBF zone, and often we are sleeping with each other on and off.

so don't sweat it, and don't overanalyse it, because that is what's really going to screw with your game.

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Typical community nonsense. Being nice will get you laid more than being a dick. It's just that it's easier to appear confident if you aren't nice. But if you're nice and don't let anybody push you around you'll do very very well. Trust me, it works for me.

Being nice and confident is just the ability to say "No."

I'm a very nice guy but not in a way of doing things for people or buying them shit, I just talk openly and honestly with people and am legitimately interested in what they are interested in. I have a fun time with people and do what I can to make them have a fun time with me without ever bending over backwards.

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You've got to let her finish the sentence, it usually goes, "You're a nice guy... BUT I'm just not attracted to you in that way."

its a kiss of death 'you're a nice guy' it basically means i like having you around we can hang out you can take me shopping but i am never going to have sex with you... it makes you her friend without a penis!!!

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"Nice guys" are the male equivalent of the fat chick.

Nice = soft ...sometimes.

Women should be intrigued, curious, even a bit frustrated (in a funny way) about you.

Are you feeding the poor? Are you curing cancer? Are you protecting the wild life and nature? If you're not, then why should anyone call you "nice".

I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing, but I may start considering that it could be the beginning of the "Let's just be friends (LJBF)" zone.

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She recently told I looked attractive. Is that good or is it same like the nice guy?

It doesnt necessarily mean anything...

Nice can mean everything from, the guy of my dreams to sorry not interested.

Look attractive too... Look attractive but in reality you arent. Or you are attractive.

Anyways, I say that people are nice when I have nothing good to say about them. "Oh, Im sure he is a nice guy." If I really think someone is nice I have a more specific comment on them, like someone is "honest", "inspire trust", "interesting", etc etc.

Just say thanks and see where it leads.