So last night I met this super cute girl outside of a bar after it closed. I was with my three friends talking and getting ready to leave when I saw her and her friend walking out. I made eye contact with the cutier one, HB8 (possible 9 depending on your standards lol) and then went to finish the convo with my friends waiting to see if they were with anyone.

After a couple mins I just said fuck it and walked over to the HB8/9 and said "hey, I thought you were really cute and I wanted to introduce myself." introduced myself, to the both of them and started making small talk, after about a couple mins my two friends came over and joined the convo. She seemed pretty drunk but then at the same time she was walking like a pro in heels so she couldnt of been that hammered. I was thinking that she may have just been a lively one haha.

Somehow the convo turned into the HB8/9 telling me and my friends that she has some herb to smoke. So we all ended up walking about a half mile to her car to smoke a J. The entire way I was walking next to her and holding eye contact, I could tell she was interested by the way she was looking at me (every time we looked at each other she had a huge smile).

So long story short, we smoked the J, had some laughs and then as we were leaving I got her number. I felt like I had pretty good game but I fucked up on asking for her number. I said something like "well hey before I go give me your number cause... I would love to smoke with you in your car again." She seemed a bit hesitant for a second then gave me her #.

I haven't hit her back up yet and am not 100% sure how to handle it. I know that she works right down the street from where I work and her friend lives even closer. I want to play this right cause I like this girl, I mean if I can find a HB8/9 who smokes then its like love at first sight lol. So how should I go about getting a date set-up between us? I want to hit her up and build some comfort but I am a little lost, Ive spent all of my time learning the game that happens in the bar but I dont know where to go after I get the number.

Thanks

You don't want to come off as too needy otherwise it will make you
unattractive an then she'll only push you away if you act like a
puppy to her. Be casual about it. Next time you see her say
something like "Hey, me and my friends are going to a
party next week (or whenever), you guys should come.
Whats the best way of staying in touch?" Just a
simple thing like that conveys your interest in
her but doesn't come off as cheesy,
desperate or needy. Give it a try
and hook up with her there.

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yezzurrr

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BOUT TIME I FOUND MY BALLS!!!

But Ive already got her number and I don't know when I would see her again, unless I stopped by her work and she happened to be working (its a bar so its do-able). Should I invite her to smoke with me one of these days since shes into it? Or can I just call her and say something along the lines of what you said?

Going after you get the number is also easy! Just be direct and say, "I want to see you later this week, what day is good for you?" Every time.

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Don't get on one knee for a girl that won't get on two for you.

How long should I wait before I call/text to ask her that?

Never call. Ever. Not during 3 days anyway. You don't to appear
too available, you want her to let you know that you also have
a life and she's got to respect that. You're a busy guy, (I hope ,
you've just met her, you have other business to attend to first.

If you've just met the girl don't call her straight away, you
never want to come off as a person who is needy,
make her come to you. Also, don't pop by her work
on your ownsome without a purpose and intent.

If she works at a bar that's even better. Round up a group
of your mates to go have a drink there one night and be
merry, socialize with the rest of the people there and
invite them over to your table and get them to chill
with you guys, this will gain you social proof from
the room. After an hour or maybe just after a
short period of time, call the chick you like
over to your group and ask her to take
5 minutes off work to relax. Once
you've persuaded her to take
5 minutes off you can
isolate her away
from the group
and go have a
smoke some place where
only you guys can chat in peace
and discuss what you want with her
without any distractions from your friends there.
If she's already at the bar its a cool and chilled environment
to get to know her and even arrange something in the future.

My one mate who I was friends with liked this girl a while back at a party.
She wasn't bad but she wasn't good looking either. So my
mate clinged onto her for most of the night, trying to
get her attention, fetching her drinks, agreeing
with her on everything...you know, just
anything to get her to like him (he
has zero game so he has to take
what he can get). Eventually,
the girl gave him her
number, and he
called her
nearly everyday,
texting her, writing on her facebook,
sending her emails and shit wanting
to know when he can see her. And,
by the laws of physics and nature the chick
became less attracted to him every time he
tried to make a move with her...

My point is, if you want to get your chick
without even calling her or arranging
anything over the phone, goto
the bar where she works,
ignore her for a while, be
merry and chilled with
your friends, gain
social proof from
the room and DHV,
she WILL be attracted
to you and she will
want to get to
know you.

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Thanks for the advice. I'll wait to call her but I am going out again tonight so I may stop by the bar she works with some friends for a drink. Dont know if shes working tho.

It's all up to you man, post your progress afterwards It'd be cool
to see my advice go to go use haha

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