Okay, so I have a BIG problem...

I had a girlfriend for a long while (1,5 years). Ofcourse she broke up and then I ended up here. Which is one of the best things that happened to me, its like you get the world, you know how to act and what to do.

But anyway, almost every time we had sex, my dick just stayed flacid... Maybe I wasnt attracted to her enough, but I dont know. Pussy is pussy, but she was so cute.
I banged her a lot though, because it wasnt like that always, but now Im scared to get a girl who is in my social circle. If she eventually has sex with me and it stays flacid, what will she tell the other girls that I know too...?

So thats the deal.
I dont dare to game girls properly because of my dick. What can I do about it...?

Hey, I think that is something called "performance anxiety". You're too focused on your performance rather than pleasure, and your brain stops giving a shit if you're hard or not. I read about that a few months ago cause that shit happened to me...I'm a 19 year old virgin (i think it's lame, i dont know what u guys think) and there was this time I made out with a girl and then she took me to her place and when we were ready to have sex, my penis would just stay semi-hard and I couldnt put the condom on! It sucked because i'm still a virgin and i dunno if she ever told her friends what happened to me :/ I think it happened due to being too anxious about my 1st time and also a bit drunk.
So, your problem is 100% psychological..therefore if u keep thinking that u wont get hard with a girl in bed, guess what: u wont get hard! cause thats how the brain works. U have to think that everything will be okay and also make sure that u trust the girl aswell. Hope it helps

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Yeah but I think I have to game girls outside of my social circle, so when it happens she wont be able to tell people I know because its fcking embarressing.

And yeah being 19 and a virgin is fcked up towards other people/chicks. But personally I dont think it cares at all, you just hadnt had your time yet. Just try to hang out with girls more and it will come.

Pff and dont be drunk when youre gonna have sex man xD I was drunk once too... We were outside and I drank too muchhh. We went behind a tree and start making out. So she rubs my dick, wanting to suck it, but it just stays flacid LOL. Yeah that was kinda pathetic.