Well I built up the Confidence and talked to severel women.

asked generel questions talked about me my career why I moved to the city etc.

Things were not well I tried to get one of the group to befriend me hoping to get to my target but I was not successful had a good convo or to didn't bomb totally.

things were going well good eye contact laughter general practice I am in a new city so I am a bit nervous.

and I talked to the hottest blond in the bar.

The blond was with 7 women and my ego was a bit small. but I pulled her off for a drink but things quickly died.

The Alpha female quickly took her away. I knew she was the Alpha because I was watching them for some time and heard her mouth goin off about guys and games.

bitching about 8$ drinks. meanwhile im thinking I make so much money and you wont even look at me. you wouldn't have to worry about 8$ drinks.

She was a pretty Asian girl in a black mini skirt dress very pretty.

When I peeled off the blond the alpha came along and asked for her drink to rudly I shrugged her off by asking the blonde a question and changing my pocket string.

she was interested for about a minute and a half and I lost her.

I am at a lost for interesting and charming things to say.

Bars are prob my worst place I ever meet women I can never get anyone. very rarely.

I think i need a venue change?

I really like all the advice I am a successful good looking male 5 11" 180 pounds I dont know why i have such trouble for women to talk to me.

I am new to this area And I am Italian in an Italian town hitting on Italian women. And I get the response I only date black guys. im not racist or mad. But why am I off the list aren't the same as her.

I am attracted to my races women is this wrong of me. I don't get it.


I was reading the forum and someone said it took them a year of failures to reach a point of high success rate.

Is it just me or is it my area?

I come from down south us and the women are a bit friendlier. All the other Italian guys are Jersey Shored out.

Do I need to act like them to achieve success.

I have a picnic date with a Venezuelan beauty tomorrow.

in Boston Park. I am a bit Nervous. She is 2 notches out of my leuge but were both 30. and I am successful so I have some things going for me I am fit as well.

So we will see I am going to try the Eye contact and Non verbal escalation and see how it goes. Shes a solid 7 btw.

I offered to bring wine she told me her fav type im going to get some.

I just need to keep it moving and fun. God I suck at this heh.

First of all: learn to write. There's no structure in your sentences, no real punctuation and your story is so blurry and vague nobody bothers to read.

On the subject: yeah all you have to do is just keep on practicing until you've got the required skills. Watch some infield videos and check their general attitude. What they're saying doesn't matter that much so you can focus less on that.

good work man, you are obviously becomming more confident, think of all the things you learned from going out and talking, you got compliance from a girl who isolated with you, you learned that you need to handle the friends and make sure they are happy or they will cock block you, you talked to a girl that was probably into you, but most likely lost interest when she realized you were not going to try and hit on her,

try once or twice, just declaring some interest in them, don't talk about yourself, just tell them what you think of them and try to get to know them, if things are going well, go for some touching and some kissing, hit up the pua lounge read chiefs guide to outter game, and follow his escalation ladder, climb the ladder, if you start things off with, hey i just had to come talk to you for a little while, i think your (tell them what you honestly think of them if you can't just blurt out what your brain processes say cute) if they are talking to you past you telling them they are cute, they are interested, just keep going and if they are fine with you touching them, go for a kiss

you should also know bars/clubs are a little bit of a colder approach, girls understand why you are talking to them at a bar/club and they put their sheilds up, they came there to have fun and get attention, you need to make your attention worthwhile