Whats up fellas? Just joined the forum. I'm 21, and I love women. Can I get an amen on that??

Anyways, I recently got out of a 5 year relationship. I was always faithful, so now that I am single I am realizing that I have had very little practice with actively pursuing women. I am talking to 4 or 5 girls now, and have been hanging out with all of them.. The thing is, all but 1 of them are girls that I already knew and decided to start hollerin at since I'm single. I've only gotten 3 numbers since the break up (a 100% success rate, i just havent been asking very many girls) I am not satisfied and would like to work on meeting more women in general.

I like to think that I know the basic ropes of pick up. Even though I was dating, I have had an interest in this subject for a couple years. I have seen vids, read tons of ebooks, lurked on some forums such as your own, and soaked up a lot of the concept. It has definitely had a positive effect on my attitude towards women, my friends, life.. I may not be a master PUA yet or be the most smooth talking cat on this board, but ya better believe that in my social circle I am alpha as a mothafucka. Problem is I haven't ever put that attitude to work in the field and tested any pick up stuff on random girls.. Like I said, I was a faithful boyfriend. And to be honest, I always thought while I was with her that if we were to break up I had more then enough confidence to go meet girls. At this point though I can only seem to connect with girls I already knew, with a couple exceptions.

I dont want this to come across as I think I know it all.. I joined your forum cause I have found tons of good advice within the concepts of pickup that has helped me develop my take on what it means to be a man. And being the man makes me feel fucking amazing, so for this I thank you. I only want to continue to better myself.. I missed out on all of my teens, so I figure I owe it to myself to enjoy my 20's

Advice for the new guy?

1. Get a game plan
2. Start practicing till you are able to successly excute your plan to the last step, sex.
3. On your journey to success, we are always with you ask us whenever you get stuck.

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Amen!
Remember it isn't just our forum, it's YOUR forum now, too. Welcome, and congrats! As khuram said, we are always here for any hep you want.

Saying that you just want to improve yourself is a great attitude as well. As you upgrade yourself, your game improves, and as your game improves, you will find yourself upgrading yourself. It's a great cycle!

Now to me, it sounds like you're in a comfort zone. You have some girls and you're doing ok with them, but that's because you're comfortable in that circle. And chances are, they're already comfortable with you as well. Don't worry about a success rate of any kind. My theory is that a success rate isn't tied to a person, but to how they game. You should use these rates with different techniques you're trying to see which help you the most. But look at other factors, too. See the context. And the context for your 100% isn't all that great.

But it's a fine jumping off point. I don't have a problem with that.

I just recommend that you go "sarging", "campaigning", whatever you want to call it. Go out specifically to meet to new women. If you have any questionson that subject, feel free, as always, to fire away, and I and many others can all help you out. Good luck!

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Like a summer breeze that makes my soul shiver,
One look from you is more precious than gold,
Let's grab some BBQ and go get busy!"